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| Author: | Manarchist [ Fri Nov 18, 2016 8:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hello PUAs |
Hi, I'm a recently divorced mid-20s man. (decent looking, somewhat self confident, educated) I was a habitual long term relationship kind of guy and that has come to bite me in the ass now that i'm older and single again. I've noticed that after my previous relationship I keep slipping into the friend zone and don't end up with the girls that I want to be with. I've talked to some of my new "friends" and came to realize that there is a lot about the female mind and how they view males that I didn't know about before. One compared men to an SPAM.. another to stocks and trading positions (trading up guys) ...I have tinder and used it with some success.. but honestly i end up spending too much time and money on girls that are not worth it in the end. Here to share some thoughts, pick up some advice and improve my own approach to women and the "game" that we're all in apparently. |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sat Nov 19, 2016 4:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hello PUAs |
Hey man, I couldn't really read what you're looking for specifically? Sharpening thoughts is one, but what is the actual life you'd like to lead as your next level? |
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| Author: | Manarchist [ Sat Nov 19, 2016 5:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hello PUAs |
My biggest issue isn't the approach, its keeping the conversation on track and transitioning to a more physical aspect or keeping a phone convo going, setting up a date and having the date go well by creating chemistry. I get shy as things progress. I have no mid to long term game. Women get into my head and I overthink everything. I don't know how to play it cool and attract them to me, instead of running around after them and being rejected. I guess my goal is to increase my confidence and knowledge on how to flirt and create sexual interest in the minds of the women I talk to. I'd like to be able to live a life where I can feel attractive and desired by women and have them show me the respect that I show them, instead of just being an afterthought. |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sat Nov 19, 2016 7:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hello PUAs |
Quote: My biggest issue isn't the approach, its keeping the conversation on track and transitioning to a more physical aspect or keeping a phone convo going, setting up a date and having the date go well by creating chemistry. I get shy as things progress. I have no mid to long term game. Women get into my head and I overthink everything.
I see. I don't know how to play it cool and attract them to me, instead of running around after them and being rejected. I guess my goal is to increase my confidence and knowledge on how to flirt and create sexual interest in the minds of the women I talk to. I'd like to be able to live a life where I can feel attractive and desired by women and have them show me the respect that I show them, instead of just being an afterthought. You want to think of this in stages. Stage 1 is in learning how to keep a conversation going without ever running out of things to say. You need normal social skills to be good in this area. Stage 2 is learning how to create attraction and chemistry with them. Stage 3 is then learning how to set up a date, get on a date and behave on date, where you can progress to kissing and sexuality. If you'd like to live a life of being attractive to women, then you have to become attractive as a man. And this isn't about learning a few cute lines about how to talk to them and turn them on, but it's actually about building yourself into a powerful and attractive man. I know you said you're problem isn't approach anxiety, but if you'd like, sign up for my group below and I'll lead you through a different process for your challenges. |
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