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| Author: | DynEira [ Mon Nov 07, 2016 11:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Trying again. |
Hi. Sorry if this quite long, but I would like as much help as I can get. So while at University about 7 years ago, I decided to read The Game as I was having no luck whatsoever. I was always been shy before going to Uni, and to be honest, this did get better, but I'm still a quite person. I'm more of a speak when spoken to kind of guy. But, I still feel like I struggle to hold a conversation with strangers. Usually go with short answers and don't ask much questions back. This is sometimes true with people I know fairly well. I don't think I'm ugly and feel as if I knew how, I could end up with someone. I feel that I've had so many missed opportunities, something drastic needs to change. I'm 25 and haven't had sex for over 20 months. Before that, it was about a year and with the same woman. I had previously been sleeping with her for a few months. We hooked up while we were both drunk to begin with, which I don't remember how it happened, and then texting back and forth after but it was obvious what we both wanted so not much effort was needed. Since then, I think I've only kissed one more, again while drunk and not really knowing what I was doing. This is really frustrating. I don't really know where to start and would appreciate any help. I do think I have AA, but after working on it, I also feel that it's not my main concern. I think that what I suffer most with is keeping a conversation flowing while keeping her interested. I might have a fear of closing as well as I have found I'm better at speaking with women I'm not thinking about actually speaking with them. These being my friends girlfriends, women I'm not attracted too etc. Sorry about the long post, but I will really appreciate any help I can get. Also, I don't think that any hypno type techniques will work for me. Thank you. |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Tue Nov 08, 2016 8:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trying again. |
Welcome to the forum man. Here's a guide you can use to help you get started: general-questions/guide-for-guys-just-s ... 99768.html If your main challenge is keeping the conversation going, here are couple of videos to help you get started: How to keep a conversation going: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJek7ahPW3A[/youtube] How to make a conversation feel natural: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3T4PUFVrHU[/youtube] How to change the topic: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlszEPpfqCA[/youtube] Good luck, and if you have more questions, feel free to ask. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Nov 09, 2016 8:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trying again. |
Quote: Welcome to the forum man.
Lol.. You've got to get your own style bro..Here's a guide you can use to help you get started: general-questions/guide-for-guys-just-s ... 99768.html If your main challenge is keeping the conversation going, here are couple of videos to help you get started: How to keep a conversation going: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJek7ahPW3A[/youtube] How to make a conversation feel natural: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3T4PUFVrHU[/youtube] How to change the topic: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlszEPpfqCA[/youtube] Good luck, and if you have more questions, feel free to ask. Anyway.. Welcome to the forum: Heres a few solid links to get you started: pua-lounge/topic190620.html posting.php?mode=reply&f=1&t=197547 approaching-and-opening/topic190187.html Let me know if you have any questions. |
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