Hi,
I’m Braves, a 20 year old student. Been struggling with severe IBS for 5 years which at one point made me loose all confidence around girls. Read «How To Win Friends And Influence People» a year ago and started gaining confidence. Three months ago I would consider myself as just average when it comes to people skills and confidence. Took one month after I read «The Game», to loose my virginity. I’ve read a lot of material on people skills and seducing the last three months. Which has elevated my skills way beyond what I thought I could do in such a short span of time. Since my debut I’ve been with two other girls. So three in total. I could probably refer my life to Before The Game and After The Game. Gone clubbing approx. 9 times A.T.G. (I need a better acronym…). Two tries of bad luck before I got lucky. Now it all seems to happen on a regular basis so I wouldn’t call it getting lucky anymore.
Enough of my bragging.
For the part of which pickup method(s) I use, I do find it hard to choose a specific one. As I do now feel like I’m just being me. Trying to be as sweet and charming as I can to make people comfortable and open up. Would also say I’m very aware on displaying right body language. Can probably also add good listener, to the list.
I’ve found out that the easiest way to make people open up is to find subjects we both agree on. Occasionally I’ll challenge them on something they like, still while maintaining eye-contact (CRUCIAL). Found out that you’ll instantly be regarded as more sympathetic because people tend to break eye-contact in these situations. This is not a standalone method but it really works.
Other than that some of my hobbies are programming, snowboarding, freeskiing, soccer and running. Currently working on a bachelor in Computer Science and working alongside studies to make the ends meet.
Obtained my first goal of loosing my virginity. Now I joined the PUA forum to get advice on a tricky but amazing girl which I really could see myself having a relationship with. Either way, should I not be able to make her ditch her current unofficial boyfriend for me at the moment, I’m not saddened. I’ll get more time to learn to control my new superpower and make her ditch him later. Cheers
