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Author:  theconvert [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 4:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Gay turned bi preferring women - but clueless
Hello All,

31, Kitchener, Ontario here. Growing up I strongly preferred the same sex - my first sexual experience was with another guy and since then I've only ever been with guys. Most of done with a girl is make out, feel each other up.

I spent a lot of time in the gay hook-up scene - but about 4-5 years ago I got out of the scene completely (thankfully disease free). Now over the last 4 years, my attractions have been strongly aiming female.

So these are my challenges:
  • All my friends are married - no wing men
  • I don't go out to clubs anymore
  • Starting online - but my lack of dating experience with women at 31 is a roadblock
  • Very nervous that the truth of my past will weird girls out
  • Started with "The Game", have been canvassing online material - I love the techniques, but the lifestyle seems more extreme that I'm interested in (been through it in a different way)
Any suggestions on where to begin?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 4:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Gay turned bi preferring women - but clueless
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Any suggestions on where to begin?
The same moves as before.
Author:  theconvert [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 4:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Gay turned bi preferring women - but clueless
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Any suggestions on where to begin?
The same moves as before.
You mean in the gay world? Hmm... Unfortunately things were a little different then:
  • I had a manic episode around 20 and with that came extreme confidence - so dating was easy at first
  • Later - I got into the drug & sex scene where drugs were involved in like 90% of my encounters, so kind of want to take a different approach.
In this world - I feel like I'm 13 years old.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Sep 23, 2016 4:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Gay turned bi preferring women - but clueless
Express or convey immediate sexual interest.
Author:  They call me Alpha [ Sat Sep 24, 2016 5:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Gay turned bi preferring women - but clueless
Set up a decent Tinder account. Talk to your matches - they are already physically attracted to you. Use humor, escalate sexually, ask for phone #, date... be yourself, take it from there.

Women want the 3 As: attention, affection, appreciation.
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