The trick is to already have something planned when you leave her. Planning something after the date is often bad news (I know, I was a pro at it ) Try to have a few plans in your head beforehand (anything you enjoy that she might too) and naturally arrange for it during the date.

Here's an example : "There's this thai restaurant that was recommended to me which I was told is unbelievable, and i'm planning to go try it this week. Why don't you join me ?"
You can do it with whichever event or place you'd like to take her to, especially if you know her interests.

Hi all
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I'm recently divorced and new to the game so to speak. I was wondering if someone with more experience may be able to help.

I went on a date about a week ago, everything went well (I thought) she hugged me twice on the walk to the car and mentioned several times how much she would like to see me again. We exchanged a handful of texts since then and now she has gone cold. Did I do something wrong or is it just something in the way? Anyone have any insight?