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Author:  LandoShred [ Tue Jul 26, 2016 8:56 am ]
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Hey guys,

I've been learning about PUA for a while now, and enjoy this site. I'm coming from a very unique medical situation, so I see PUA as a way for me to optimize my new found health. As an extrovert (and ENTJ if you're familiar with MBTI) I enjoy social interactions and always seek to improve myself.

Anyway, I don't really get much social anxiety, and more and more I've been noticing interest from women. That being said, I'm going to fine tune the skills it takes to kindle a stronger attraction. Approach anxiety isn't a big deal for me, so I'm game to try just about anything. After almost dying a couple years ago, there's really not much left that affects me.

The three main things I'm looking to work on are: Opening, Kinoing and Escalation.

I live in Western New York State at the moment. 6'2" - blonde hair + blue eyes. Early 20s and enjoy going to the gym.

Would love some quick tips or to hear from someone else.

Author:  Black Phantom [ Tue Jul 26, 2016 9:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: From Lurker to Poster

Welcome to the forum. It's always interesting to hear from someone who had something like your medical condition be able to put approaching women in perspective. I almost died, so you think I'm afraid of talking to a girl??

As approach anxiety is probably the biggest challenge for guys overall, I think you'll do fine.

Just don't try to do too much at once - but focus on one challenge at a time. Talking, then building connection,
attracting, kino etc. Don't try to do all at once, it will choke your growth.

I have a welcome package for guys starting out with women, you can find it in my signature(Welcome Package). It will help you get on track.

Welcome again, and good luck.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Jul 26, 2016 11:28 am ]
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Welcome to the forum:

Heres a few solid links to get you started that will also answer some of your original post.

pua-lounge/topic190620.html

posting.php?mode=reply&f=1&t=197547

approaching-and-opening/topic190187.html

Let me know if you have any questions.

Author:  LandoShred [ Wed Aug 03, 2016 8:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: From Lurker to Poster

Quote:
Welcome to the forum. It's always interesting to hear from someone who had something like your medical condition be able to put approaching women in perspective. I almost died, so you think I'm afraid of talking to a girl??

As approach anxiety is probably the biggest challenge for guys overall, I think you'll do fine.

Just don't try to do too much at once - but focus on one challenge at a time. Talking, then building connection,
attracting, kino etc. Don't try to do all at once, it will choke your growth.

I have a welcome package for guys starting out with women, you can find it in my signature(Welcome Package). It will help you get on track.

Welcome again, and good luck.
Hey man, thanks for the positive reply.

I'm definitely not going to take things to the speed of light right away. I've still got some aspects of my life to get straight, so I'll be pacing myself in some regard. I see how that would turn into a mess :lol:

I'll take things one step at a time, and see where that leads. The field reports aspect of this forum is something I'll likely contribute to.

-I'm not one to sit idly by

Author:  LandoShred [ Wed Aug 03, 2016 8:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: From Lurker to Poster

Quote:
Welcome to the forum:

Heres a few solid links to get you started that will also answer some of your original post.

pua-lounge/topic190620.html

posting.php?mode=reply&f=1&t=197547

approaching-and-opening/topic190187.html

Let me know if you have any questions.
Thanks for the links! I definitely subscribe to your mindset approach.
Look forward to learning more, and growing from experience

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