Hi all,
Thought I should properly introduce myself to you. Also to give you some idea of my current status in this PUA thing.
I am a 26 yr. old shy dutch guy who is still way back at the beginning of AFC in the PUA learning curve. In fact the following stereotypical things apply to me:
- Im a virgin. Yes i am one of this special group called old virgins. Even never kissed before, besides kissing people on the cheek that is. I am not as obsessed about losing my virginity as some people though. Know many guys who are in the same situation, some who are fun, cocky and social. Besides at least i can honestly claim no woman ever has complained about my skills in bed or has ever faked anything.
- I still live at my parents. Am looking for a house to buy though. Want to make a good choice and unfortunately prices are high. But I have my own home in the following year. Kinda looking forward to decorating it according to my own style.
- Work in the IT business. Kinda saw that coming didn't you
. Guess everyone will say this, but no i am not a nerd.- Do not have female friends. Fortunately that means i don't have to listen about problems with relationship of some woman you love.
It is not all bad though. I do have decent social skills, sense of humour (at least people often seem to laugh about my jokes) and have the motivation to improve myself. Friends and family around me have noticed the last couple of years that my social skills were improving.
Until now i have read something of Ross Jeffries, years back, I don't really like SS. Saw Dvd's of David DeAngelo which kinda made things like not being a nice guy but using stuff like cocky humor obvious. And recently read Venusian Arts (or something like that) of Mystery which really provides me with a strategy to begin with.
Though i have more to say and more important to ask advice about ill keep it at this for now. As i know how boring it can be to read long posts.
