Your starting point is about average for a new guy, but your motivation seems higher - that's a great thing. I expect some great things from you in future.
Focus a LOT more on taking action than on things like seminars and everything, here's why: the more you watch, read and study... the more invested you become, which adds pressure "Wow, I can't fail now! Not after knowing everything that I know, if it all goes wrong now after all that studying I will be heart broken!" but if you go straight out and talk to 50 girls, the 50th one will go SO much better, and you'll literally make more improvement in 2-3 days (or however long it takes) than you would make in a month of reading material. Second by second your chance to be something spectacular is dissipating.
Here's a quote from the smartest motherfucker to ever live, which will kind of summarise the points made above:
Also, rather than the top guys who go out and take action right away, the guys who spend too much time reading and studying information, get wrapped up in the information bias which is only worsened by the likes of RSD. The information bias is essentially the feeling that you're "not quite ready" to make a decision until you've learned a little more on the topic, and a constant feeling that you're still in need of more information - the perfect opener, the perfect response to whatever she might say back to that opener, the perfect clothing, hairstyle, percentage of eye contact, escalation method, logistics, wingman bla bla bla. You get the picture.
As you can see, I have a thread in my signature for new guys. But I genuinely think you should just fucking FORCE yourself to walk up to a girl and talk to her before you read any more information whatsoever, ok? Just use some kind of opinion opener or anything "Excuse me, my friend is on holiday and has given me £60 to get his girlfriend a gift for her Birthday. I'm clueless, but I know she loves horses. Could you give me some ideas?" whatever, make it up. Use information and theory as a correction on what you've already done, rather than a tutorial for what to do in future.
If you really need to read something, just make it this thread and then go out and fuck shit up! I've got a feeling that you'll crush it. general-questions/nervous-about-making- ... 94288.html
Quote: any woman would be fortunate to hang out with you. I believe in u. If ****I**** who has never met you believe in you, don't you think you owe it to yourself to believe in u too?
You can do this man.
Ask your brain a question, and it will instantly answer it with the truth. It's fucking fantastic. Infact, try it right now; ask yourself your name. See? Your brain instantly responded with your name. Ok, now ask yourself "Why am I going to be the next success story on this forum?" or maybe "why are girls going to fucking LOVE it when I walk over and talk to them? Why will it go so well? Why am I so good looking? Why are girls lucky if I talk to them?" wow. Asked myself the same questions as I wrote that and as expected, I now feel pretty good.
Remember that guy who gave up? Nah, me neither!
Man, I can't wait to see how much you'll crush this shit! Let me know how good you do!
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