Hey everyone. So I'm a queer woman, mostly like women but I am attracted to the occasional guy... judging by some posts here maybe those guys were PUAs! Haha.
I'm 25 and and live in Ohio. My hobbies are gaming, reading, uhh... to be honest I don't have many hobbies. That is one of my problems. My passions are music and writing.
I first heard of the PUA community years ago and to be honest I was a little repulsed but also intrigued. Now I'm here because I haven't slept with a woman in years and it's eating me up. I'm already incredibly shy but I freeze up around attractive women. I've slept with 6 (8 if you count 3somes... and tbh one of those 3somes I wasn't into the guy but I was desperate and thought that was the only way I'd ever be with a woman again. x.x)
I've met all these women online. If I get to know someone online first I am able to be myself enough (most of the time) that I don't have as many problems.
Not sure what my goals are. Eventually I want a long-term relationship that'll lead to marriage. But right now I want to learn how to meet women and not be so terrified of them, work on inner confidence, and be able to have my "personality" be the same online as it is in person. And you know, have a little fun.
This is not to be offensive to the women I have slept with, but I would love to sleep with women that are my "type." I like thin, blonde/redhead, white women. Now as a black woman I don't know how possible this will be. And I don't know if these techniques work in lesbian interactions. Also I'm femme and prefer to be approached. But that hasn't worked lately so. I'm willing to give this a shot! I will say I read the "newbie mission" and the thought terrifies me. I have a long way to go.
Anyway sorry if this is a bit long... I type more than you'll ever see me talk in person haha.