Hi there,
I'm a twenty-two year old guy from the Netherlands.
I'll just briefly describe my situation:
I've never been good at getting or even approaching girls, but it's been going better lately.
I've never had sex before, so that's why I'm here.
My first kiss was 3 months ago - with a girl I was in love with at the time.
She ended up sleeping with some guy I didn't even know, so I guess I dodged a bullet there.
Since I found out about her sleeping with him, I've been thinking "fuck it" and stop pursuing her, because to keep pursuing her would be kind of weak, and I don't like to consider myself as a weak person.
Since I found out I've also been going out and meeting other girls (with the thought of "who cares if I fail" in the back of my head)
So that first girl is kind of the reason why im here, because I thought she could really be something. That's why I finally snapped and went out to do something about my inability to seduce women.
Since that first kiss I've kissed 4 other girls in those three months, so it has been going okay.
The thing is that I still need quite alot of help, or at least someone or something to steer me in the right direction or guide me through the process.
The reason I'm not good with girls is because I overthink everything, and get anxious because of this.
I like to consider myself a pretty smart guy and a quick learner, the thing is just that I need to push myself over the edge to succeed with girls, and I dont like doing that because it makes me feel uncomfortable.
So to sum it up:
-New here
-22 year-old virgin (yes, I know, ridiculous, but that's why I'm here isn't it)
-Smart, quick learner, and eager to learn about the art of picking up women
-In need of quite alot of help but willing to push myself
-All help and/or advice is welcome
Let's make this the start of something wonderful.
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appreciate it