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and has put on a few pounds since which I can't help but laugh at (her mum posts pictures every now and then LOL).
Well, you got upset when this 'fat girl' split up with you 
Anyway, welcome to the community. It works, however, this community isn't anything like that pick up artist show anymore. It has evolved somewhat since 10 years ago. (For me) It's about being attractive overall and not being needy. No cheesy lines.