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Author:  Mesmeric [ Sun Jul 19, 2015 1:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Can I have my cake & eat it too?
Gamesters,

I discovered the PUA world a little late in life. I am 40 now, I wish I had known the things I've learned in the last month twenty years ago, but everything can't always be perfect.

Anyway, about a month ago I got some books on attraction & seduction techniques, started watching some YouTube videos on the same subject, and I started applying what I learned.

I don't think it is luck - it's really true that men can learn to be attractive. It seems that knowing even just a little bit can really go a long way.

So, now, after a 3 year dry spell, I have a girlfriend of two weeks who really seems to be into me, we have sex once or twice a day, all that.

But that's not what I was thinking when I started learning about how to be attractive. I thought I would have a couple of years of dating different women, and then settling down.

I really like this woman I'm with, but I am still interested in meeting other women.

The way I see it, I have these options:

1) I'm too old. I should stick with this woman because I'm nearing the end of my days of being able to make new girlfriends.
2) Break up with with current girlfriend and get back into the field.
3) Somehow convince current girlfriend that it's ok for me to get with other women while we're together

I'm thinking I have more than just these 3 options, but I don't know what they are.

I would appreciate it if anyone with experience in this realm could answer.
Author:  Dragula [ Sun Jul 19, 2015 1:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I have my cake & eat it too?
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I really like this woman I'm with, but I am still interested in meeting other women.
That is your answer right there ^

Or you can stick it out for 5 years then be back to square one only 5 years older with regret.
Author:  masterm1ne [ Sun Jul 19, 2015 3:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I have my cake & eat it too?
Here is the conclusion I came to about this subject;

If you're still thinking of other women, that woman is not the 'one' for you. Trying to make monogamy out of a girl that you're not wanting to be monogamous with is going to be disastrous for both of you. So, keep her on the side.

You'll be surprised how good you can get along as long as you're honest. It's not like you have to ADMIT you're seeking other women.

1) is a limiting mentality and only exists in your head.
2) a societal label for something (I don't like labels - everyone has a different idea of what GF/FB/etc means), you don't have to 'break up' but you also don't have to tell her your seeking other women. You just have to be honest when the time comes.
3) since we don't know much about the person, I can't answer it. But I'd advise against it.
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