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Author:  coyote123_311 [ Fri May 15, 2015 1:16 am ]
Post subject:  New Here
Hi, I am new to this. To sum me up I am the guy that gets overlooked a lot, mainly because I am shy. But when I do branch and try to meet a woman I am automatically put into the friend zone. I am tired of this happening, and would like to take charge of my life.
I like to make a few friends that can help me change my life. I really don't know where to start if anyone has a good idea let me know.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Fri May 15, 2015 1:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New Here
Quote:
Hi, I am new to this. To sum me up I am the guy that gets overlooked a lot, mainly because I am shy. But when I do branch and try to meet a woman I am automatically put into the friend zone. I am tired of this happening, and would like to take charge of my life.
I like to make a few friends that can help me change my life. I really don't know where to start if anyone has a good idea let me know.
Welcome to the forum!

If you're perpetually being friendzoned when "branching" as you put it, I think (and you've obviously not included examples or much info here) that you're taking the frame of a friend who'll listen to her problems and do her favours.

The frame you need to immediately adopt with any woman you're interested in is a sexual one.

Not overtly in your face sexual, but you need to identify that you are not interested in being her friend, but rather a romantic option. You do this by touching and escalating... And -- I'll be clear about this: not telling a girl you are interested in her (just don't do this) - show her you're interested in her.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Fri May 15, 2015 7:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New Here
If you're in the friendzone, you're probably too much of a nice guy. Look up Corey Wayne. Read his book 10 times (it's in the free area of his website, or you can Google: Corey Wayne Scribd, and read it)... seriously, TEN times if not more.

Also look up Jason Capital - he's like Julien Blanc, if Julien was better. Good look being a nice guy after that lol

Finally, when I say nice guy, I don't mean NICE... I mean the excuse that boring, shy guys give to themselves "I'm too much of a nice guy" ...there's nothing wrong with being nice, but TOO nice is just boring. That's probably why you get friendzoned. Seriously listen to the advice that Corey Wayne gives. Most people give the excuse "You can't ONLY text to set dates, that doesn't work" but it really does lol. His material alone changed my life.
Author:  ImPhilosopher [ Fri May 15, 2015 7:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New Here
Mate this is very big topic, you should click on the link in my bio and check two article:
"The Advanced Guide To How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone" and
"7 Tips How To Turn Your Girl Friend Into Your Girlfriend"

I hope it will help you.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Fri May 15, 2015 8:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New Here
Quote:
Mate this is very big topic, you should click on the link in my bio and check two article:
"The Advanced Guide To How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone" and
"7 Tips How To Turn Your Girl Friend Into Your Girlfriend"

I hope it will help you.
I disagree with your part about flaking on her 20 minutes late. I think it's transparent and manipulative. It's the kind of thing you'd do to a girl who has already put you in a position where she should no longer have any of your time. I'm not discrediting your whole article, I just think that's dangerous advice.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Fri May 15, 2015 9:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New Here
Quote:
Mate this is very big topic, you should click on the link in my bio and check two article:
"The Advanced Guide To How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone" and
"7 Tips How To Turn Your Girl Friend Into Your Girlfriend"

I hope it will help you.
Something isn't adding up here ImPhilosopher.

First of all, your English isn't great (that's not a dig, I'm just pointing it out.) The site is well written though. This is your site?

Further, you're now offering 1:1 consults? Just a few months ago didn't you make this thread where you stated you were a virgin, with very clearly minimal game - asking very, very basic questions?

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I'm really not trying to make trouble for you here but OP should know where he's getting his advice from if he's actually trying to make changes in his life and is considering listening to you.
Author:  M@XBRAZIL&USA [ Mon Jun 01, 2015 12:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: New Here
Hey , iam also new here =)
any tips on hardcore approach anxiety ?
Author:  BrownLinda [ Mon Jun 01, 2015 10:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New Here
welcome everytime in this spectacular forum
Author:  J.Daniels [ Thu Jun 04, 2015 9:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New Here
Quote:
Hey , iam also new here =)
any tips on hardcore approach anxiety ?
There's a thread on the forum somewhere about beating it. Basically just go to a busy place and smile at people. When you get bored of that, start nodding/saying hello. When you get bored of that, start asking people for the time/directions. When you get bored of that, talk to shop workers, make jokes with them etc. When you get bored of that, talk to anybody (literally, start conversations with old married couples, guys, anybody at all)

^ works a treat

Another tip is to get a job in a bar, or in sales.

Basically just feel the fear, and ask yourself why it WON'T beat you. The brain is a powerful tool. When you ask yourself a question, your brain will answer it. If you asked yourself "Why will hot girls like me?" you'll immediately come up with an answer (you might discredit it after with bullshit, cause of low confidence, but the immediate answer is the truth 99% of the time) ...ask yourself why you SHOULD approach.

Final tip (don't do this one unless you're serious about this stuff): You're not allowed to masturbate until you approach X amount of girls. This one's powerful if you apply it ;)
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