Hi everyone, I´m not at all newbie but I have a lot to learn and I´m improving myself to do so and willing to learn from everyone and every experience.

I´ve been in a relationship for about 5 years and recently we broke up. I´m living and working on the beach and meeting a lot of interesting people, and of course I´ve been aproaching HB´s, but I haven´t seen them for a date or so and the question is: Everyone that has been and done that, what´s your advice? How you keep sarging without getting to autojudgemental about it? Thanks.