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Author:  B@dPlayer [ Wed Mar 25, 2015 9:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Total noob here who want to become PUA
Hello everyone I'm new on this forum.
My info: I'm 18y/o, my experience with girl is big ZERO (this means that i don't have any experience with girls, that's the ugly truth).
My primary problems: I'm not so optimistic with girls, my self confidence is low, my self-image: unattractive guy...
My goals: To start from zero and become a HERO! real badass with girls, number 1 PUA for my age hehe
What i need from you: I want you to give me links from where i can build my basics and examples, and everything i need to go Level UP...

Thanks everyone.. I'm enjoying in your company!! Cheers.
Author:  sikrion [ Wed Mar 25, 2015 9:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
welp lets get started with the basics.

You'll hear different things from people but I suggest starting with the mystery method and The Game, don't just read them put them into practice.

I also suggest videos from Adam Lyons, Seductive Instinct, and RSDTyler (and all his rsd[namehere])

After you feel like you got the basics down get the BluePrintdecoded and put that into practice.

Whenever you are feeling demotivated watch some infield stuff.

Start studying fashion and body language while you are at it.

that should be more than enough to keep you busy for years.

Also, all the material in the world is useless if you never put any of it into practice, which sadly is what most guys seem to do. They spend all this money on books and dvds (some even on boot camps) and never do anything with it. Don't be that person. Also there is more than enough free content out there to get you started and rolling. I wouldn't spend any money (beyond those two books) until you have atleast a month of practice and or 5 girls.

Nothing feels as good as going out multiple nights in a row with different girls you just met and doing whatever you want with them.
Author:  JSmooth [ Wed Mar 25, 2015 9:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
Quote:
Hello everyone I'm new on this forum.
My info: I'm 18y/o, my experience with girl is big ZERO (this means that i don't have any experience with girls, that's the ugly truth).
My primary problems: I'm not so optimistic with girls, my self confidence is low, my self-image: unattractive guy...
My goals: To start from zero and become a HERO! real badass with girls, number 1 PUA for my age hehe
What i need from you: I want you to give me links from where i can build my basics and examples, and everything i need to go Level UP...

Thanks everyone.. I'm enjoying in your company!! Cheers.
Honestly, stay away from the community for a bit. Work on being the best you that you can be. However that looks to you in your mind. Getting in better shape, doing hobbies you enjoy, play a sport, learning a new skill, or whatever. Work to be the best you that you can be. When you become comfortable with yourself, who you are, establish your own self confidence by doing things on your own, know what you want in a woman, what you do not want in a woman. Once you have that it gets a lot easier to pick and choose what parts of PUA you want that naturally integrate into your life.

The common thing most new guys think is they have to LEARN EVERYTHING. Well that is good and bad. There are a ton of PUA techniques that work. There is a lot of information that conflicts with each other on issues. There is stuff that will work for you and things that won't. There are a fair bit that just sucks too. Still, the main thing is until you are happy and know who you are then you are just copying someone else's style and you'll mold yourself into being someone else. Become the best you as the main ingredient, then add the PUA spice to enrich your life if you need it.

The rush of having to do this now today is only in your mind. Take your time and if you do it the right way you have the rest of your life to get the girl.

Trust it from and old pro. You can get good quick, if you put enough heart and dedication into it. You really can turn it around and get all kinds of women, you really can. At first it will be fun, challenging, rewarding, and will plug those validation holes you have. After a while you'll realize it wasn't you the girl was attracted to last night, she didn't sleep with you, she slept with your PUA personality THEN it stops being rewarding and you have to find yourself all over again.

Good luck on your journey sir.

Jon
Author:  B@dPlayer [ Wed Mar 25, 2015 9:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
OMG guys THANKS!
I started reading The Game book but it goes slowly but i will try to do my best!
I will start watching videos from tomorrow!
But i have a question (idea)... Can i just try any method on my free female friends?? Just to go out (for first time no sex, just "good forearm and grip exercise" if you know what i mean hahhaa) just to get some positive experience with all of this.. And if you agree with me, which method should i try it from tomorrow? Links?
Author:  fudge_88 [ Thu Mar 26, 2015 12:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
Hey Welcome to the forum!
Author:  JSmooth [ Thu Mar 26, 2015 5:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
Quote:
OMG guys THANKS!
I started reading The Game book but it goes slowly but i will try to do my best!
I will start watching videos from tomorrow!
But i have a question (idea)... Can i just try any method on my free female friends?? Just to go out (for first time no sex, just "good forearm and grip exercise" if you know what i mean hahhaa) just to get some positive experience with all of this.. And if you agree with me, which method should i try it from tomorrow? Links?
Be careful doing this. A large part of making pickup techniques and things work is making it sound congruent with who you are. If women think you aren't being yourself red flags will go up and it will not work. Those that know you pretty well will sense this faster than those you don't know. Still women have a good radar for it. Get out there and practice but I wouldn't use it on my friends just yet.
Author:  B@dPlayer [ Thu Mar 26, 2015 5:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
But I'm that kind of guy who doesn't show up his real face.. If you understand me.
My real face only know my best friend who is male..
I think I said everything correctly ..
Author:  fudge_88 [ Thu Mar 26, 2015 6:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
I get what you mean.

For some reason a moderator edited out the link I posted for you to help you get started. Even though you asked for it. Be careful because not everyone is here to help you. There is a ton of bad advice and ego stroking on the forum. But like any place you get get all types. There is great advice and wonderful people here as well.

Go to the sticking points section and look for the thread that says construct your game. the ultimate guide.

Also there is a thread about not losing yourself to PU techniques that you might want to read over as well. - don-t-lose-yourself-make-sure-your-tech ... 88425.html
Author:  WillEdward [ Thu Mar 26, 2015 8:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
Hey man, welcome to the forum! There is a lot of useful resources here and most people are willing to help out. I agree that there is some conflicting advice out there, but it all comes down to what works best with your personality and lifestyle. Take what's best from all methods and adapt it for you! Soon you will develop your own style of game. I can tell you're the type of person who is taking this seriously on bettering himself. Best of luck!
Author:  B@dPlayer [ Thu Mar 26, 2015 9:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
Everything OK.. Yeah i have goals everything is i have to work to achieve it.
All i want to say is: all my female friends don't know my real "face", because i save them from something else ( if you know what i mean :P)
Male and Female ... Friends?... Yeah but with Benefits... I'm sure all of you will agree with me hehe
So that is the reason I never show "my-real-self" to girls...
And i think i can go out with some of my female friends (for now),
Later when I improve myself maybe I will sleep with them... hehe
What do you think about this?
Author:  fudge_88 [ Thu Mar 26, 2015 10:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
Quote:
What do you think about this?
I don't agree with male friends with benefits, but live and let live I say.

It's not about being fake and hiding your identity from women. You just don't have to give them everything upfront.
Author:  B@dPlayer [ Thu Mar 26, 2015 10:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
Quote:
Quote:
What do you think about this?
I don't agree with male friends with benefits, but live and let live I say.

It's not about being fake and hiding your identity from women. You just don't have to give them everything upfront.
Yeah!! I mean that but didn't know how to tell, english isn't my mother language :/

I didn't mean male friends with benefits i mean friendship between male and female but with benefits
I think now you understand me :D
Author:  fudge_88 [ Thu Mar 26, 2015 11:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
Oh I get it the male in that is reference to yourself. Not you are looking for friendships with other males and females, but with benefits.

When you get a chance check out that thread in the sticking points section to get you on the road.

Have fun!
Author:  B@dPlayer [ Fri Mar 27, 2015 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
Yeah. I have only male best friends. I want ke female friends for something else...
Where I can find that topic? Send me link in Inbox.
Author:  fudge_88 [ Fri Mar 27, 2015 12:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Total noob here who want to become PUA
You can find it here:
construct-your-game-the-ultimate-guide-vt189091.html

There is no rule saying we can't share forum links. Especially when guys like you are looking for this stuff.

Have fun!
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