Hey,

I've been with my girl for 3 years. She was planning our f***ng wedding and she kept telling me we would have 3 kids etc etc etc. I freaked out, and broke up with her.

I came across the book the game by neil strauss I became addicted. I downloaded the mystery techninque as well.

I consider myself as a pretty confident guy in general. I work in sales and have no fear of rejection with clients etc and on a business level. But my weak point is with women. I can easily seduce them but i find that i play too much the boyfriend game.

I tried some stuff i saw in ths book with a girl i know who works in a tanning salon. I nailed it. I saw the looks and her face and got plenty of IOI's. So i went for the close. She was closing in 30 mins and i told her to lock the front door and that we should get a tan befor i leave. I tried to tink of a way to f***k her. So i took off my shirt in front of her, i could see she liked it. I was in the litlle room to get my tan and then i choked !! Yea shame on me. I closed the door. End of the story.

Theres my weak point. I might be affraid of sexual rejection who knows. So im ready to get over it and master my game

Any tips on what should ive done or say ?