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Author:  Tcarpycarp [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 6:19 am ]
Post subject:  New to the game!
Hey everyone I'm Tyler, from the 216 (Cleveland) 20 years old and looking to overall improve myself. I want to get into Pick-Up because I feel like it will improve my overall confidence and self-esteem, I have no problem talking to girls, in fact I consider myself to be wonderful in that aspect. But because of past traumatizing events in my life the most crippling aspect of my game that needs to be improved is APPROACH! No matter how many articles I read, videos I watch, instructional in-fields I soak up, I simply get crippled by my approach inadequacies.

But, nice to meet everyone! I'm getting committed so watch out for me :P
Author:  oceanx [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 1:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New to the game!
The solution to your issue: Approach the first desirable woman you see of the day and you will quickly find your approach anxiety disappear before your eyes.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 2:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New to the game!
It's a matter of repetition and getting used to it.

AA is something pretty much everyone here has struggled with at first. I sure did...

For good reason, too. We aren't built to enjoy rejection, and it does happen. You will not win them all, and you'll invariably be rejected by some (a lot) of girls you approach.

The more you do it, the better you'll get and the less anxiety you'll have when you do it.

As far as I'm aware that is the only solution... Repetition... And knowing that you're ultimately helping yourself with each failure (IE: you'll learn what not to do on the next one, if you make a glaring mistake, and you'll also get a little more comfortable with the approach).
Author:  oceanx [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New to the game!
Ultimately the pain of not approaching has to exceed the perceived pain of approaching and until that happens you will continue to not approach.

I recall a vid from back in the days by Mystery where he was talking about AA being hard-wired into us.

You find that once you approach and the woman welcomes you in to her sphere with the velvety warmth of a rose petal, you wonder what the fuck you were doing all those years by not approaching, and all the stupendous experiences you missed out on because you were being a fucking chump (speaking from personal experience here, not talking about any one person in particular other than myself).
Author:  Tcarpycarp [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 8:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New to the game!
Thanks fellas. I live on a college campus so there are no shortages of desirable women here!
Author:  Bling3 [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 2:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: New to the game!
Tyler, you say you're from Cleveland and you live on a college campus, do you go to school in the Cleveland area?

I just moved here and looking to try some of these techniques out myself.
Author:  DrewDating [ Thu Jan 15, 2015 3:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: New to the game!
Quote:
Hey everyone I'm Tyler, from the 216 (Cleveland) 20 years old and looking to overall improve myself. I want to get into Pick-Up because I feel like it will improve my overall confidence and self-esteem, I have no problem talking to girls, in fact I consider myself to be wonderful in that aspect. But because of past traumatizing events in my life the most crippling aspect of my game that needs to be improved is APPROACH! No matter how many articles I read, videos I watch, instructional in-fields I soak up, I simply get crippled by my approach inadequacies.

But, nice to meet everyone! I'm getting committed so watch out for me :P
approaching is my specialty for teaching. how often do you approach?

start off small, like with eye contact and build your way up.

you will definitely get it because there isnt much to it.

pm me if you want further help
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