A-wuddup!
I think everyone gets confidence from different areas. Me? I get my confidence by going to the gym. The stronger, bigger and more shaped I become, the better I feel. The feeling of having people comment on you is undescribable.
The local gyms here send their reps out into the city and have them advertise their gym. Free workouts etc. They pretty much stop everyone because they have targets to hit. When they stop me and my friends they always talk to my friends they always say things like "Working out and looking good is very important, as your friend here will tell you...". It really gives me a buzz. Especially because I used to be a weedy little dude only like 5 years ago. Seriously, my nickname was "Ironing-board" because my chest was so skinny.
I used to be shy and not very confident. I never took my sweater off in school because my arms were so skinny. People don't believe me when I tell them this because I have absolutely no issues with myself. This pick-up game is the last piece of the puzzle. I'm already confident enough to tease and talk to really hot girls. Once I learn how to make them mine, oh dear!
My point is: If there's something that you don't like about yourself, change it if you can. If you can't, then it's no big deal. If you're out of shape. Change it. If you're not a tidy person, change it. It's more a mental change at first. Once you internalise your behaviour, it becomes habit.
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