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| Author: | detectivek2coots [ Mon Oct 20, 2014 2:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | How can I learn better? I'm autistic and struggling to learn |
Hey guys. Will just use my username to get this show on the road. Call me K2 if you prefer. I've been struggling to create a map in my mind on how to approach and seduce women. I heard about these communities when I was 18. I'm 23 now. I was a book smart person before but school has been bad for me now that I've tried consistently to improve my skills. Now I've been kicked out of school the second time because I can't focus. Unfortunately, I feel as if my book is being judged by it's cover whenever I enter a situation. I'm the real nice guy gone AFC lol I feel judged because of my body language cues mostly and I feel my words were sincere. You see...I have Asperger's Syndrome. It's diagnosed. I feel I am struggling with this part of me to get it right. Just recently a girl I've met (whom of course we did stuff) left me and she was great but girls will be girls of course. What are things I should be doing to improve upon these things? I know there's a 3rd type of person: one who can learn seduction. Please respond. I just want a better quality life so I can overcome this and get back to building a career. Who do I need to see as well? I found counselling with Asperger's Syndrome (as in just talking it out in a small room) has not fixed any of my problems. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How can I learn better? I'm autistic and struggling to l |
I know of someone with Asperger's who is doing quite well in the departments you are talking about (career, social etc). It's about balance: It's about not devoting too much time to PUA at the expense of other obligations in life such as school etc. To start I'd have a look around the forum here and use the search function for finding out ways to best present yourself when approaching etc. Hang in there bro, you got this. |
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| Author: | Jealousboyfriend22 [ Sun Oct 26, 2014 12:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How can I learn better? I'm autistic and struggling to l |
Hey, I THINK I know what you're going through. Do you have a difficult time focusing and paying attention? Like when someone's talking to you...your in your head 90% of the time? I have this too, and the best way in my experience to get over this is to take things one by one, and start building that listening muscle. Everything is build step by step. So over time you will get really good at listening and focusing. Hope this helps |
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