Hi!
I'm 31 year old man from Finland. I just broke up couple of months ago with my gf for four years and as I'm single I wanna start to improve my game. I have had quite many (at least in eys of average guys...maybe not impressive to you guys) experiences with women already. I've had four LTR's ranging from 2-4 years and I think I've slept with about 60 women...once had a threesome aswell
Many years ago I read Neil Strauss's The Game but...short after that I found myself in a LTR and my strive for game improvement ceased... Last friday I started to read John Alexander's book "How to Become an Alpha Male" and so far I've liked his thoughts. Also I found out that I've been "The Jerk" as he describes the man gategories so I would like to fine tune myself in to an alpha...
Honestly I'm mostly interested about natural game and becoming a genuine alpha cause I think I have pretty good precondition for it... I'm building a succesful career, I'm athletic and in competitive sport, good looking, smart, confident and so on...
I don't have problems to go talk to girls, but I often encounter as a problem that either they don't get my whacky (sometimes assholish...it's not rare for me that women get angry while I'm trying to pick-up them) humor or I'dont have much to say to them (unless we really have something in common)...usually I try to pick up like 10 girls at one night and get laid sometimes. I think that most women I am able to seduce have self-esteem problems or are just plain drunk... Also I would like to get level of the girls up...mostly they are quite average looking.
In my last relationship I think I just beta- backslided so much that it got sour...and I eventually my lost sexual interest to my gf...and then dumped her.
So that's who I am...hope there are some other finns at this forum aswell (PM me! I'm living in Helsinki Metropolitan area)...cheers!
Aleksi