Hello I just recently discovered the amazing PUA community and I decided to join this forum !
I'm 20 years old, live in Brussels, and I have almost no day/night game at all ! At this point, i've only f***ed 2 girls in my life...
I'm a really picky guy, so both were gorgeous (I would say a 8/10), but it was pretty easy because they gave me all the signals. I just had to kiss them, I didn't use any game. I let them do the whole thing haha (one was in the same seminary than me in College, the other a really good friend of mine, and both were kinda nympho lol).
I'm not that shy, I can talk to a pretty girl and make her laugh, but when it gets too intimate, like when I have to show her that I'm interested, ask her number or kiss her, I lost all confidence (I lost my balls as we say in french). Also I've never kissed a girl that I met in a bar, even if I felt that there was a little attraction between us, I just can't go for the kiss...
(when I was younger I only kissed girls that I danced with in nightclubs, but there's no talking needed, they just look at you and if they find you cute, you can go for it. It was easier when I was sixteen/seventeen haha old good times). But anyway, I'm here to learn from you guys, you will be my PUA's gurus, since I haven't developed any game at all, I just wait for the girls to come, and we all know cute chicks don't do this often ...
I'm 5'10, 170 lbs lean at 12% body fat, so I got a pretty decent beach body look, but here in Belgium, it looks like girls don't give a damn about the muscles, they just wanna date the skinny/chubby confident belgian guy, so I guess it won't help it since we do not have the fitness culture in Europe...
I'm not the most handsome guy on the planet but I got a decent face. When I'm out and there's gay people, they all try to pick me up..
I definitely have more success with gay guys than with women in Belgium hahah (too bad I'm straight huhu). So there it is ! I have no problems talking to girls but I have no confidence at all, that's why I started lifting but it did not help my game tho... When it comes to get out of my comfort zone, showing I'm into her and not just a random friendly guy, I can't make any steps further, I freeze and so the girl thinks I'm not interested. I got no balls ! I'm scared of being rejected, even if sometimes I see there's a little attraction...
Enough said about me
I hope I'll find here good advices to help me build confidence and a solid game with girls. Thanks for reading me guys, see you on the forum !P.S. : If there's any pick-up artist in brussels on that forum, let me know so we can meet up and share some strategies, be the wingman, etc. I speak French, English, and a little bit of Dutch.
