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| Author: | JohnnyIrish [ Fri Jun 13, 2014 8:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Ready to sarge in Sacramento |
Hello practicing PUAs and PUAs in training. I'm in the the middle of reading The Mystery Method and Rules of The Game and have already put principles into practice to open up sets on Saturday nights. I've held womens attention and dealt with male acquaintances easily. Ive number closed and even got my friends face licked by an engaged woman using the friend's girlfriend kissing other girls opener. My main goal to be on here is to find some Sac Sarges to be in the field more often to become more natural (mystery expects 4x/week what?). I need way more experience negging kino escalating and isolating. I'm super independent and work alone mostly but its a confidence skyrocketer to have a network of friendlies in the room to get me out and in a fun mood, and if we're so inclined setting fun challenges for each other or wing manning. I do Sacramento regularly and the S.F. Bay area occasionally, L.A. a few times a year. Don't think my current friends would be able to pull it off. They are all locked up in relationship bliss. Hit me up, comrades! J |
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| Author: | prince_prince [ Sat Jun 14, 2014 3:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ready to sarge in Sacramento |
Hey man welcome to the forums! |
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| Author: | JohnnyIrish [ Sat Jun 14, 2014 9:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ready to sarge in Sacramento |
Thanks! Was out last night for my official debut with the goal of grinding down approach anxiety through sheer numbers. I opened about 12 sets, some mixed others women only. Locked in on four of them for five or more minutes with story telling joking and negs and made a strong vibey emotional connection with three or four women. And you know what? It was the most fun I've had in a club. Ever. The approach wasn't really the problem, it was constantly overcoming the social proofing handicap of flying solo. Between sets I'd worked by migrating the club and zeroing in within three seconds, I checked text messages at bar and acted like I was exactly where I wanted to be chatting up service persons and drinking water. And you know what happened? Women presented themselves to me. I started getting a proximity alert sixth sense. One set of two tattooed Asian women sidled up to me and I negged the prettier one when i asked about her tattoo and started a story and got an exaggerated teasing "I hate you" for telling her about a trip to koreatown she was jealous of, then I worked the short one for a while shooting a couple more negs in the pretty ones direction. They left at a high point in convo and shorty locked me in with a prop (left her glow stick bandana). Its awesome to see how women are natural PUAs especially when you're their target. Two hours of this and my buddy and a PUA from this site that actually invited me out couldn't get into the club because the line had grown so much. My buddy did a stupid mistake and exited the line. I ended up leaving to meet him at an adjacent pub without ever meeting the PUA although a big shout out to him for the club recommendation, it was hardcore medicine for a recovering AFC! One final act to this story: the two tatted Asians plopped down next to us an hour later and the look on their faces was priceless. In that moment I realized that what you put out in the universe comes back to you. I was handed a bounce & pseudo isolation. Shorty tried to get her glowy back and i put up a fight. I introduced them to my buddy which was a DHV since I remembered their names and was the group leader. Then I knew I could kino the shit out of them it just felt natural. Hand on cuteys back like I was boss. Then I think shorty got jealous which was ioi. We decided to relocate to a booth and they joined us. I should've led one by the hand but I had to take a piss. My buddy bought everyone drinks but they were clearly winding down for the night, which was DLV. Then we got a little ridiculous and he challenged me to tell them that I was a zookeeper and sell it convincingly. This was where we lost them, but talking to them they were really dumb. Especially curry. I targeted shorty and she was kino compliant. Offered my hand so I could look at her ring and realized she presented it to me even before I could offer a reason. I kind of insulted her though because she was talking about work as a manager and how many people she had under her, I made a dominatrix joke that didn't go over except with me and buddy who were in a goofy mood. Cutey got restless since she was being neglected and right then peeled shorty away to the bar as closing was announced. Hey were out the door. Lesson learned: be more myself during comfort building and value demonstration. Do more comfort building when locked into kino escalation. Pick better targets. Seating arrangement is vital-cutey was on the end off on her own. Next time I'm getting in the middle. No real complaints for my first field test! It was a huge success since my goal was just to meet, qnd i got to practice kino! |
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