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| Author: | un.i.que [ Tue Jun 10, 2014 2:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Excited to be here, problem with mid game |
Hi guys, I am Peter, 29y.o., currently living in Prague, Czech Republic. Got into PUA literature three years ago when I was looking for new ways to boost my confidence as I always was this shy nerdy gooey romantic that never got anywhere near where I wanted to with girls I wanted to. Ever since then I´ve quit my boring job in my bank, left my country and started to travel and enjoy life. Worked for two years in Cyprus as an hotel entertainer, which is a dream job for any PUA but very soon I found out I am struggling with moving it up to the next stage and closing the deal. In first six months I scored only twice, first one was my ex, second one this ballerina/actress hottie from Russia. I actually have no idea how I got her, she literally did all the work herself and I have no idea why. But this gave me so much needed confidence boost, I started to actually do only things I enjoy, became a scuba-diver, adventurer, traveller. Now I have moved to Prague where I have a dream-job, I am confident and have no problem with making a first step or even ask someone out. I decided to join this forum to improve my mid game where I struggle a lot. Case in point: yesterday. I am a tour guide, doing night walking ghost tours in victorian outfit, girls love it. Yesterday I had a tour with seventeen sorority girls from Netherlands, ended up having few beers with them, them paying, chatting for a while but it ended nowhere. One by one they were excusing themselves that they are tired and stuff like that until I was there alone. Today the same with three Americans. Honestly I have no idea how to turn a friendly chat into something more, so if anyone has any advice or suggestions, hit me. Also there is the ultimate girl in hindsights, quick recap: went on two dates, she laughed all the time, played with hair, had a lot in common when I was asking her out for a third date few days later she started to say how busy she is and how she doesn´t need a relationship right now and how she is not comfortable when I ask her out. I admit in euforia from how good I felt about our second date I made a mistake of telling her how crazy I am about her and that I´d do everything to make her mine. Ever since then we haven´t talked as much as we used to, she´s a colleague though so from time to time we are meeting on our business meetings and since she is a big fan of theatre I invited her to go with me to see a play in few weeks. That night I need to bring on my best game and get into shape in those few weeks. Any crash-course ideas? Thanks a lot in advance for any help and I am looking forward to being a part of this community. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Wed Jun 11, 2014 2:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Excited to be here, problem with mid game |
Quote: I made a mistake of telling her how crazy I am about her and that I´d do everything to make her mine.
Good that you noticed this was a mistake. The reason a girl is on a date is the same reason as you most of the time: To get closer to you and if it all goes well, to have sex. As you admitted your game isn't up to par so it is no surprise that the tour girls are ending with no action. I wouldn't rely on that first it's work related second it's a crutch and an easy out to avoid the possible pain of rejection from actual girls you meet out and about. I'd start doing cold approaches to get your game up. From what you've said you have an issue with midgame but IMO your overall game from point a to point z needs honing and that can only come through repetition - meeting tons of girls, falling on your ass, and then getting better. Gotta put in the work, it's the only way. Very cool that you escaped what was a mundane life for you and are now living a life that's true to yourself. |
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| Author: | Iain [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 2:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Excited to be here, problem with mid game |
Hey Peter If you're still looking for wings and such in Praha, get in touch! I'm trying to get us all a community together, and arrange a meeting. Better yet, add my facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/puapraha No advertising or sales pitch, just want a base in the Czech republic for men looking to improve their life! Cheers Iain |
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| Author: | DrewDating [ Sat Nov 29, 2014 7:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Excited to be here, problem with mid game |
Welcome to the PUA community most problems with "mid-game" come from things you do in your beginning game I've been around for a few years so don't hesitate to ask me personally any questions with Private Message |
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