Hey bros,
Well, it has finally happened. My high school girlfriend of three years and I have had a mutual break up, and I can say I'm ready to move on.
I have become single for the first time in my adult life (im 21), and can now dive right into the pool of glorious ladies - with your direction of course, as I have literally no clue whats going on!
I have done some reading on PUA methodology and it is an interesting to see that I guess I am somewhere in the middle of the progression levels; I'm having issues opening women in bars etc but if I do, I can hold interesting and flirty conversations.
In the last 3 days I have picked up a couple numbers, but I still get the feeling that getting the # is hit and miss and works 50% of the time. Its too early days for me to k-close or even f close, (its been 2 weeks since the break up), I'm sure in time I'll get there, but for now I'm quite content with getting a couple numbers and organizing dates. I'm allot better in person than on the phone, and my conversational skills seem to flow far more freely 1on1.
I've also picked up the Tinder app, for my sins, and have gotten a decent response. However, it seems that after a girl "likes" your photos and you get a match, the girls NEVER send the first text- even if they get the "match" first. They expect us to initiate, and even then half don't respond. I have had a few good chats and got 2 numbers from some very hot babes, (one of which was a medic student and a professional dancer), but it seems that the vast majority of girls just want the instant gratification of seeing a guy "liking" their pics and showing interest. Ah, women.
Anyways, well this is me just saying that I would appreciate any tips from you awesome guys about how to really get started and start having some great times with great girls.
Cheers guys!
to bad for your ex bro, whats her number?