Whats up everyone? My name is Brandon, I am 20 years old and currently live in a college town, Hammond, Louisiana. I recently decided that my pathetic one ex-girlfriend wasn't cutting it. I am shy and nervous around girls. They intimidate me to a level I can't believe. It isn't like I curl into a ball and cry if they speak to me, it is just that no matter what clever thing I thought to open with as soon as I get the chance my mind goes blank and I psych myself out. I am currently halfway through reading The Game by Neil Strauss. It is eye-opening,but I guess I expected more of guidelines and help then a really good story. So far it has helped me reach a more confident level but just not enough.
I work in a bar currently but am a kitchen manager so I don't get a huge amount of time to practice social skills everyday and it also limits my nights to go out looking for girls. This isn;t my career path, just a way to make money right now. I want to be a stand-up comedian and I come here not just seeking advice on picking up girls (although that would be a plus as well
) but instead to try to gain confidence in every aspect so I can pursue what I really want.. I am an out of shape guy, 6 foot 280 lbs with way too much of it being fat. Im working on fixing that. I work out 2-3 times a week currently and plan to move it to 5 in the coming weeks, just tough with time constraints of work, long nights, days, 60-70 hour weeks. Anyway let me wrap this post by saying that I would love any information I could get to help me further myself. In detail, since I will finish The Game in the next day or so, what do you propose next on my quest to seduce ALL THE WOMEN? Haha. Im excited to get involved in this community and form a bond with my fellow brothers. We are all in this for the same purpose