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Author:  FairlyShortGuy [ Mon Mar 24, 2014 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Texting after a date

Hi guys, I really need some advice.

I met a girl and went on a date. We had a couple of drinks and it went well....but I waited at the bus stop with her (tring to be a gentleman) and at the bus stop she seemed not that into me!

I texted her around 45 minutes later saying:
“Hey, did you get home ok?”

She replied:
“Yes I did. Thank you for a lovely evening xxx”

I did not reply to her after....but am thinking of messaging her tomorrow?

Is this her polite way of saying thanks but I don't want to see you again? Or is there a chance I can see her again? Should I message her tomorrow? What should I message her tomorrow?

Please let me know guys. Your advice will be much appreciated!

Author:  Street Tiger [ Tue Mar 25, 2014 5:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting after a date

Quote:
Hi guys, I really need some advice.

I met a girl and went on a date. We had a couple of drinks and it went well....but I waited at the bus stop with her (tring to be a gentleman) and at the bus stop she seemed not that into me!

I texted her around 45 minutes later saying:
“Hey, did you get home ok?”

She replied:
“Yes I did. Thank you for a lovely evening xxx”

I did not reply to her after....but am thinking of messaging her tomorrow?

Is this her polite way of saying thanks but I don't want to see you again? Or is there a chance I can see her again? Should I message her tomorrow? What should I message her tomorrow?

Please let me know guys. Your advice will be much appreciated!
Wow, wait...what? i can't really understand where you pulled that out from, but ok...i don't know why would "thank you for a lovely evening" mean she doesn't want to see you again :) what was she supposed to say, thank you for a boring evening? :D
If you ask me...no, don't message her right away. wait a couple of days, the day after tomorrow is alright. Just don't make her feel as you are rushing things.
About what to message...basically anything, doesn't matter really :)

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Mar 25, 2014 8:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting after a date

If you like her, ask her out again.

This isn't rocket science.

Author:  Street Tiger [ Tue Mar 25, 2014 10:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting after a date

Quote:
If you like her, ask her out again.

This isn't rocket science.
Exactly...

Author:  FairlyShortGuy [ Fri Oct 31, 2014 12:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting after a date

Quote:
Wow, wait...what? i can't really understand where you pulled that out from, but ok...i don't know why would "thank you for a lovely evening" mean she doesn't want to see you again :) what was she supposed to say, thank you for a boring evening? :D
If you ask me...no, don't message her right away. wait a couple of days, the day after tomorrow is alright. Just don't make her feel as you are rushing things.
About what to message...basically anything, doesn't matter really :)
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Thanks for the reply. Sorry I have taken so long! (I forgot my login details - so this is the first time logging back in since writing this!)

Just to let you guys know she was keen after and we went on 4 more dates. I live at home with my parents (sad I know - but London is very expensive!) so never 'sealed the deal' but we made out a bit and had some fun in other places, haha! Things died down for several months however we recently messaged and have arranged a date for tomorrow. Let me know if you are interested in how it goes! :)

Author:  FairlyShortGuy [ Fri Oct 31, 2014 12:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting after a date

Quote:
If you like her, ask her out again.

This isn't rocket science.
Haha...true! Just out of curiousity - how often do you guys go on dates?

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