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| Author: | REG720 [ Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Background introduction of myself |
Hello everyone. I have been asking questions on this forum to no avail. I now think that I should have introduce myself alot more on my first introductory post. So, on this post I will give you guys more background info. of myself. I am a 26 year old man who has had no sexual experience, and is sexually frustrated. I have researched on a number of sources pertaining to dating, relationships, sex, etc. for a while now, but some reason I still can't figure out exactly what to do to succeed in it. I know my looks aren't the problem at all. In fact, I don't mean to brag, but throughout my entire life, I've always been told by many people including girls, even some guys who I was friendly with, older people, etc. that I am so handsome that I look like and/or should be a model. During middle and high school, girls who were attracted to me wouldn't ask me out, but they would compliment me on how cute I was, flirt with me, say that they have had crush on me, etc. When I was in college, though the girls were much less obvious about whether or not they were attracted to me, except for two of them which actually happened only during my 3rd year. Yet looking back and having learned more about seduction over time, I think that during all four years of college, there were a good number of girls who gave subtle signs of being attracted to me. Also, I have always been thin in large part due to having healthy eating habits overall throughout my entire life, along with always having had trim parents. In addition, ever since I was a little kid I have been very physically active and athletic having played all kind of sports all my life and am currently have a black belt in martial arts. Plus, I have been consistently weightlifting for over 5 months and so I have become more muscular overtime. Furthermore, I graduated from UCLA a few years ago, and I am trying get into grad school. By now, I am sure you are probably thinking or saying that that all sounds good, but its still obviously not enough for me or even any guy to be able to successfully pickup girls. Looking back at all the social interactions that I have ever had with girls, all the online videos that I have seen from a variety of PUAs read online articles and books by coaches such as Corey Wayne and Kezia Noble, etc. I agree that what I am doing is not enough to seduce girls or women. Here's the thing, when I was a little kid I was hyperactive and annoying up until high school, were I then became much more reserve. Since then, I have usually been a shy/introvert. As a result, I have had always had little to no friends. Right now, I don't really have any friends. Though, overtime I have been gradually working on overcoming my shyness and have been going to Toastmasters for a while to help overcome my speech anxiety in both public speaking and social conversations, which to some extent has worked. I have only kissed a girl on the lips once in my entire life and that is as far as I ever gone physically with a chick. Additionally, I have only gone on a few dates, but those interactions never amount to anything physically, let alone consist of flirting during those conversation. I never really knew how to date, much less pick up a girl until my 4th year at college. Yet, UCLA goes by the quarter system (10 weeks per quarter) instead of the semester system (approx. 16 weeks per semester). So schoolwork, exams, finals, projects, would happened so fast that it made it difficult for students to manage enough time to go out. Also, every year at my dorm, virtually everyone would have their doors closed and so that made it even more difficult to socialize with others. For the past few years I have been taking community college courses to fulfill prereqs for grad as well as trying to get into grad school, and it still has been hard for me to make friends and meet girls. My martial arts studio, has no girls age that are available. My Toastmasters club, hasn't been working either. A few months back I even joined an LA fitness club which has alot of members, including a good amount of girls who are around my age, and that still hasn't worked out, even when I have taken one of classes there. I would like to make friends, have a social network of some sort, have some real dates with girls, and get laid some time soon, but for some exact reason it has been so frustratingly difficult for me to achieve any of it that it's getting really crazy. I don't what to do about this. Please help! I really would appreciate any solid advice that would help make significant progress socially and sexually. |
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