Im a 24 year old male and Iv always had trouble with girls ever since I was young. I have never had a girlfriend but I did have one side piece that I sort of considered my gf but it never worked out. I have laid with a lot of women in college but I feel Iv only scratched the surface. I had numerous opportunities with 9's and 10's but my balls would never budge to go talk or pick them up.
Im hoping that being a part of this forum might help me open myself to the ladies.
I am in a bit of a situation currently and having trouble getting to this girl. You may render it being a "pussy" on your behalf but I feel its the anxiety that is numbing me to approach them. There are actually a few of them at the gym that keep staring at me like I'm some exotic specie. Problem with me is I always get nervous and say something really banal. IT JUST HAPPENS THAT WAY!
Anyways, Im digressing. There is this one girl I have the hots for but the problem is that she comes to the gym with her brother. I have caught her multiple times looking at me dead in the eye. She has also come a foot close to my but my lips have never opened. I walk away dumbstruck and later repent the situation over and over. How do I assess this? I know the brother but I want to talk to the girl and then have her convince her brother.
Im heading to the gym in 3 hours and I know she will be there. Anything to at least break the ice? Any pointers? help a brother out. Thank you.