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Author:	pacersfan35 [ Fri Mar 14, 2014 1:18 am ]
Post subject:	IN NEED OF DIRE HELP
Well I wouldn't say dire, but I need some sort of help or advice. So here's the deal. Growing up I was always good with girls. I've always been a good talker, I've had plenty of girls crushing on me ever since I was little (lol). Basically the point I'm trying to make is that this in my blood, in my gene code. However as I grew up something happened, I started believing the negative things people said about me. I feel like this is what caused my anxiety and nervousness, especially when talking to women. Every time I talk to a girl I'm interested in or wish to approach a girl my nervousness eats me up, its like a physiological response I have no control over. I don't know what to do to prevent this or to control it. The thing is, there has been times where I am excellent when it comes to just simply socializing. However there also many times where my nervousness consumes me and I begin to have no control over myself. However I know I can fix this, but I just don't know how. It seems like I've tried everything. What do I do? What steps do I need to take to become the man I truly am and was meant to be? I need your help.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Mar 14, 2014 7:21 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: IN NEED OF DIRE HELP
There is no better cure of fear, than facing it. Conditioning has changed your mind set, but blaming others won't fix it, you must do that. Your goal is not to look for sex or a woman but merely to look for and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. Once we accept our limits, we must go beyond them. Tear yourself away from the safe comfort of certainties that are not getting you laid! Approach, approach, approach.

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