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Author:  0inverse [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 12:57 pm ]
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I approached the first girl in my life with some confidence. She was walking in a certain direction and I came from the back. Acc to Ross Jeffries technique(I know it is not Mystery's method), he says "Complement-Question-Observe", I started in this way:
Me: Hello, nice shoes you have got.
She: No need to butter.
Me: No really, the shoes are pretty.
She: I said, no need to butter.
Me: Your bag is cute too. Where do you shop from?
She(kindof frustrated):Didn't you hear, I said no need to butter.

After this, I suddenly changed directions and put off flirting.

My question: What I should have done when she said "No need to butter"? Pls help. I am really frustrated. :?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 2:10 pm ]
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She just simply sounds like she wasn't in to you.

Happens. Just move onto the next.
Author:  Donston [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 3:54 pm ]
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Instead of taking it personal ... take it even further ... ask your self "How can I make this even more awkward?"

Girl: "No need to butter ..."
You: "Oh man I love butter so much ... I'ma pour a whole bucket of butter all over you ..." ... CHANGE THREAD AND CONTINUE TO PLOW LIKE HER BEING A TWAT NEVER HAPPENED.

You see ... when you take things to personal = Value leech.
When you don't give a fuck and you make a joke out of it = Providing value.

If she still doesn't feel any attraction towards you ... at least you did something funny to boost your emotions so that you will come in with good emotions in the next set.
- If you feel butt hurt because you took that set to personal ... you will bring this butt hurt feeling to the next set and that will go bad ... and a down ward spiral of negative emotions will build up and you will go home crying and you may consider going homosexual.

... All this talk about butter is making me hungry for some butter on toast/muffin ...

Sincerely,

Donston
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 4:42 pm ]
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Quote:
Instead of taking it personal ... take it even further ... ask your self "How can I make this even more awkward?"

Girl: "No need to butter ..."
You: "Oh man I love butter so much ... I'ma pour a whole bucket of butter all over you ..." ... CHANGE THREAD AND CONTINUE TO PLOW LIKE HER BEING A TWAT NEVER HAPPENED.

You see ... when you take things to personal = Value leech.
When you don't give a fuck and you make a joke out of it = Providing value.

If she still doesn't feel any attraction towards you ... at least you did something funny to boost your emotions so that you will come in with good emotions in the next set.
- If you feel butt hurt because you took that set to personal ... you will bring this butt hurt feeling to the next set and that will go bad ... and a down ward spiral of negative emotions will build up and you will go home crying and you may consider going homosexual.

... All this talk about butter is making me hungry for some butter on toast/muffin ...

Sincerely,

Donston
Good answer
Author:  0inverse [ Sat Mar 15, 2014 4:21 pm ]
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Thank you all very much for taking your time in answering my question. I understand the fact that I should have cut some joke at any point when things start moving in the wrong track.
Author:  johngoldman [ Sat Mar 15, 2014 4:33 pm ]
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Quote:
Me: Hello, nice shoes you have got.
She: No need to butter.
If I gave somebody a compliment and she said, "No need to butter", maybe she thinks you're not being sincere. I might tell her that I thought she was really attractive and noticed she had pretty shoes...I had to walk over and compliment her.
Author:  Donston [ Mon Mar 17, 2014 6:47 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
Me: Hello, nice shoes you have got.
She: No need to butter.
If I gave somebody a compliment and she said, "No need to butter", maybe she thinks you're not being sincere. I might tell her that I thought she was really attractive and noticed she had pretty shoes...I had to walk over and compliment her.
I like this answer better ^_^! The answer of being sincere! It is more versatile and can be applied to any hiccups you come upon during your interactions ... Here is the step by step instruction to this ... It's called calibrating after the fact - by Julien of RSD

Calibrating after the fact is when you take action with out thinking about the consequences, but calibrate by dealing after you've taken an action and you deal with the random situation. But, if you do this enough (approach so much) ... you will know all the patterns that girls can give you and you know how to deal with them with your experience!
When you come upon a hiccup
1) Step back
2) Statement of empathy (The definition of empathy is ... the ability to understand anthers feelings)
3) Act like it never happened

Example: Going for the make out but she resists.
1) Go for make out even though it is not there ...
- Girl resists ... but doesn't say no.
2) Understand what she is thinking ... maybe her friends are near by ... it's to much of a leap in the interaction ... etc etc ...
- Counter with a statement of empathy
"Only 2 seconds, 2 seconds ... they won't see ... I have broad shoulders."
"It doesn't count as sex."
3) Ignore her resistance and go for the make out.

You can even avoid the girl saying any shit test like "You don't have to butter it" ... before she says it ...
- When you approach ... you can immediately use a statement of empathy like what johngoldman said to avoid any resistance ... Typical statement of empathy are ...
1) I saw you and I had to meet you.
2) ... I'm here with my friends and I can't stay long but ...
3) 2 seconds 2 seconds I just wanted to meet you.
4) Totally random ... but I had to meet you.
5) I know ... you must be thinking ... who the hell is this stranger coming to talk to me ... but, anyways ...
6) I'm such an asshole for stealing you from your friends ...

The point is that as long you understand how she feels and you say that to her ... you can then ignore it and continue on ... tahahahhahaa

Politicians do this all the time to calm down angry protestors.
Protestors: "We don't like how you are sending our people to fight in Iraq!"
Obama: "I understand you guys don't like how we are sending soldiers to Iraq ... but here is some news coverage for your protests ... But, I will still send soldiers to Iraq."

tahhahaa

Hope that helped,

Donston!
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