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Author:	'Logic' [ Sun Mar 02, 2014 5:17 am ]
Post subject:	The joining and parting of two wings
This post is dedicated to my no longer friend/wing, Rob I have never been pleased with myself and when I find that my life is going great and I should be happy, I never am. It got to a stage where I thought I was one of those people who love to be miserable. Recently I spoke with a gentleman, Mark, who summed his own reality into words that I’d like to say were my own: “I am never content with my life, I refuse to believe that I am to settle for nothing but more.” I began Game when I was in college with a part-time job and a serious relationship of many years. Coincidently my older brother and best friend were both reading ‘The Game’ by Neil Strauss at around the same time. “You have to read this book, please let me lead you it!” Rob was really inspired by this book. I declined and told him it wasn’t for me. Two weeks passed and seeing how Rob was changing I borrowed my older brother’s copy and began to read. Admittedly being an AFC, terrible with women from an early age and adopting a sexist behaviour because of it, it felt as though I was reading my own diary. The way in which the author paints himself and the transformation he undertakes was so powerful that it felt like my life had began the same why Neil’s had and I was determined to make my own reality, the same way Neil had. I had terrible AA and didn’t approach much, after all I was in a committed relationship – never cheated, never will. Call me old fashioned but my chastity is something I hold dear, my aim was to build myself as a better more confident being that people wanted to invest in. Not just women but I wanted a better career, a larger social circle with more opportunities. “Everyone has the potential to be a hero, a celebrity or a role model but only certain individuals will encounter those opportunities that allow them to climb that hierarchy.” – Unknown I had Rob lead, he seemed more confident and had a better understanding on the rules... or so I thought. He was really shy and intimidated by average looking women despite taking a liking to the peacocking thing and going out everywhere in a 3 piece suit. “Women like money, and if you dress good they’ll think you’re rich and want to sleep with you. I tell all women that I’m a famous Architect and have worked on many famous buildings” Rob explained. “And that works?” Maybe he was taking the ‘fake it ‘til you make it’ thing too seriously. “Yeah I slept with this girl the other week, I’d show you a picture but she’s ugly as sit” Like stated before, I Gamed on and off but I shortly realized that Robert’s goals where nothing like mine. His were to become a player, a stud, a MPUA whose reputation was solely based on how many women he’d slept with. This may have been tolerable along with the three piece suit if he hadn’t began living the “party lifestyle”. Women and cocaine where high on his agenda, the night life was not to be without him. He would tell me how he wished his mother was dead because he couldn’t stand living with her. It wasn’t long before I gave the whole thing up, after being touched by that book yet see it take such an evil form was not pleasant. At the time I had fun despite the few interacts I worked up the balls to do. Me and Rob would talk like we were pros and discuss different methods we’d read or seen and even try make our own routine. You’d think we were 14 the way we went on, laughing, making that bond between year old friends. The book had stripped me of my friend. The more I interact with women today the more I feel like a PUA. I much prefer the social dynamics of real life situations rather than bedding a stranger. After talking to some other “PUAs” I’ve figured out that I’m not the only one who doesn’t fully aspire to the terminology. Through conversation the term ‘Day Gamer’ has surfaced meaning: ‘to interact with women in a sociable manner through the sheer love of female anatomy.’ These new DGs are helping me grow as a person, I only wish I could inspire my old wing to do the same. - Logic *Rob’s father passed away when we were in high school together, at the age of 13 his downfall was probably inevitable from that day onwards. He would talk about his father though he was his best friend. “He would have liked you, he was a great judge of character and I think that’s where I get it, you’re my best friend y’know that? Thanks for lettin’ me reminisce about my ol’ man. Cheers.” We drank and spoke in the pub like old men that day.

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