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Author:  Whyiseverynametaken? [ Sun Feb 23, 2014 10:52 pm ]
Post subject:  New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
Hey what's going on guys. I just found out about this and I thought there were important things to be learned from you guys. I live in PA in the U.S. I'm still 18 years old and I want to become better with women. Where should I start at my current age? Thanks :mrgreen:
Author:  Byron Jester [ Sun Feb 23, 2014 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
I started off by reading The Game like pretty much everyone else. I'm still pretty new too. But things that you're probably going to want to work on are flirting, body language (both your own and reading other people's), confidence, working out, and most importantly chasing after your non-girl goals as well. No girl's going to want to go out with someone who's going nowhere with his life. You should probably give more information about what your strengths are and what you need to improve.
Author:  Whyiseverynametaken? [ Sun Feb 23, 2014 11:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
Thanks Byron! That'll help me stay on goal. I am a pretty driven guy outside of girls, I stay in shape and keep excellent grades, and I'm pretty chill to be around. I guess my questions are: Where should I meet women since I can't go to clubs? I still live with my parents because of my age, but is there a different game for teenage girls? I'd almost think it'd be easier haha
Author:  Byron Jester [ Sun Feb 23, 2014 11:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
I know there's a book called Conquer Your Campus that's targeted specifically for college game. You can run game pretty much wherever there are girls though. Your school, the mall, library, park, etc. I have the same problem with still living with my parents which is why I've taken a break from approaching at least until I move out (which should be soon and then I only have to deal with roommates).
Author:  Whyiseverynametaken? [ Sun Feb 23, 2014 11:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
Yeah man. Plus the mystery method from the book doesn't work as well in those places, for my situation anyways. Most of the time my situation will be something like, there's a cute girl at the gym I work at, or I'm in a store and there are girls looking at clothes in the other section. I'd feel like a total weirdo just going up out of no where and then even if you could get a conversation going and possibly get a number than how do you text her and how do you follow up? Just AFC stuff.
Author:  Damien Cash [ Mon Feb 24, 2014 9:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
Hey man.

I'm assuming since you are 18 you're probably going to college, which is great! Women there are a lot more open.

As has been mentioned, there are a lot of books on PUA and there is a vibrant community, so coming here to ask questions was a good idea.

If I were you, I'd start looking for friends around campus who have more game than you. Since you will be new to school (even if you aren't, there are so many people on a campus, most people won't know you), no one will have any pre-conceived notions.

LEAVE THE PAST IN THE PAST.

You aren't high school you, you are adult you.

If you are able to make that friend, shadow them. Go to the same parties, talk to the same people. Don't stalk the guy, but get out there a bit.

Follow his lead and ask if he can help wing for you. 9/10 people love to help people who are new at picking up women.

Also, make sure to sit next to pretty girls in your classes and use the class to ask questions. It's natural for students to ask each other about the book or the syllabus and their guards will be down. You're just another student, until you make yourself more.

Hope this helps a bit up front.
Author:  n00bpua123 [ Mon Feb 24, 2014 6:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
Since you're new I'm going to give you this tip: don't read too much. Don't analyze too much.

And now some practical advice: normally, I would tell you to sarge at least two times a week in clubs. But you're 18 and you probably don't have access to night clubs so I would recommend you to sarge at least two times a week on the streets (day game).

Your first focus should be on taking action (= handling approach anxiety and opening sets). Maybe you also need fashion advice.
Author:  Suiting_backup [ Mon Feb 24, 2014 7:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
Good luck your getting in for the first time at 18 and i'm getting back in at almost 30 LOL

Do you live next to a major university ?
Author:  guitar420guy [ Mon Feb 24, 2014 7:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
Quote:
Since you're new I'm going to give you this tip: don't read too much. Don't analyze too much.
This right here - I started off reading too much, got over confident and figured I didn't need help. After a while I realized I was falling flat on my face with oneitis. Don't study pua to get one specific girl, do it for yourself and wanting multiple women.

Also, the best thing to do is go out and practice. Can read all your life but what will that do if you don't actually do what you're reading about?
Author:  Suiting_backup [ Mon Feb 24, 2014 7:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
Think of this allot like a good work out routine it may take a few months to see improvement but its well worth the wait
Author:  guitar420guy [ Mon Feb 24, 2014 8:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
I've come to realize that a lot of the girls I pick up aren't due to a good approach, though that helps, but how I portray myself. When I'm feeling confident, i.e. I've got the wind at my back, I can approach any woman I see and joke around casually without coming off as a creep. But then I have those days the winds in my face, and any attempt is faltered.

Build yourself an attractive lifestyle you're proud about, I started playing guitar and my confidence went up substantially. Learning a skill you'd otherwise be afraid to attempt just to get over those barriers. That's what I would do rather then read stacks of books to try and figure women out. Just my two cents.
Author:  Whyiseverynametaken? [ Tue Feb 25, 2014 11:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
Thanks for all the tips guys! I live close to the Harrisburg campus of Penn State (30 mins or so). I like the idea of sarging twice a week on the streets. I can't wait to get good! I am only in my community college and I come from a small town where everyone can hear something about you (high school never ends:P). How do I go about meeting guys who have game?
Author:  lachusma [ Mon Mar 03, 2014 6:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: New 18 year old PUA! Help me out!
I know how you feel, I'm 19 years old and a freshman in Memphis,TN(pre-med) and I am going through the same thing. I am beginning to learn that the school game is more about inner game(how you hold yourself and act) the better you are the more girls gravitate towards you at college. How is it up there girls wise?
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