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| Author: | gaifogel [ Tue Feb 18, 2014 10:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Relatively new to game, but feel things have stalled now |
Hi all, I am new to game, and I feel it has changed my life over the last 4 months. Upon initial discovery of the community, I had a rush of energy, excitement and empowerment in my dealings with women. I have gained certain levels of success. I was before utterly hopeless with women. This period of time culminated in me sleeping with this girl, a girl I have become attached to, and had been chasing for 5 months, and who was probably the trigger for me looking into Game. I dated her before knowing game, and she blew me off. I learned Game, got confident, hooked up with a few women, and then closed a circle by sleeping with this girl, who I actually liked. She left a few days later. We were both living/travelling abroad, in Central America. I lost now my initial energy. I pick up on IOIs easily, my standards are higher, but also I do not feel like putting in any effort. I would be dancing with women in a club, grinding etc. and not having the patience to stick around dancing and hope for something to happen at the end, and I just leave. It has been a month now since she left. Must be something with my inner game. I have done nothing, not much effort. Has any of you ever felt a drop in pick-up energy, in the will to even go find women, put in any effort? Any advice on how to reignite this once again? |
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| Author: | cool_hand [ Tue Feb 18, 2014 10:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relatively new to game, but feel things have stalled now |
Sounds to me like you had feelings for her, closed the loop, and lost your drive. To re-ignite your passion, you need to fall in love with *women* again. After all, this is all about bringing beautiful classy gals into your life. However, if you really dig this chick, then make her your girlfriend if it's logistically possible. |
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