Hi guys!
I'm 25 years old and I come from Croatia.
I got involved in pick-up six years ago when my first girlfriend left me. After that I was totally devastated.
Well, I wasn't so devastated by the fact that she left me. I was devastated by the fact that I knew deep inside me that I can't get another girl.
And then the pain began...
I knew that I had to fix this somehow, but I didn't know how. The first thing I started was to imitate alpha guys that I knew, it was pretty funny now when I remember it.
After that I found about pick-up community through a guy that I accidentally met (Thank you universe!).
I read a few posts learned a few techniques and went out to a club. And on my very first approach I made out with a good looking girl. Oh my God I was reborn!
But that was beginner's luck. After that I got rejected a ton of times and my confidence went down. But I knew that getting a girl is possible! And that kept me hanging.
Through the years I built myself up, read a lot of self-help books, and of course GOT LAID and now I don't have to constantly approach chicks just to confirm that I am sexually worthy.
Now I turn down girls for dates.
And that's not because of some power/control issue, that's because I just don't feel like it. The most important thing I learned is that 90% percent of pick-up is about inner game. When you remove the guilt about your sexuality, feeling of being unworthy to have the girl, shame, fear and anxiety everything becomes magically easy and natural.
I knew that I had to deal somehow with all of these issues and then I began searching for a self-help method that will cure me. After some time I found a great therapeutic self-help method that was under my nose all the time.
That method helped me to remove the cause of all my women related problems by working on the root cause, and that was always a feeling of sexual unworthiness and messed up relationship with my mother. Not on the superficial everyday level, but on the deep subconscious level.
The reason I came here is because I want to share my insights and knowledge with guys that are still struggling with picking up chicks. I want to give back to the pick up community that gave me a new life. I would still be a dumb society robot if it weren't for it.