Hey tapcal,
Just got in and saw your reply. I want to use these openers more but I feel like... they are only relevant in bars and clubs? and I like day game more. How long does it take to num-close with an indirect?
I kinda prefer quick, short, sharp, value spiked conversations and then act like Im super busy in a calm way.... Number closing in under 7 mins is becoming my strategy, or otherwise its LJBF 4 life. Stuck to the short sharp value spiking tonight and k-closed with a HB7 i met last week. Done. The situational opener used: "yeah this shop is great don't you just love these places...?" Then went for the email. Done.
Thats the issue with indirect openers in my current style that I'm having; you open, you get them talking, but the subsequent rollers aren't building/rooting the opener enough (because its scripted?) and you inevitably aren't giving the woman enough calibrated value spiked reasons or opportunities to imagine as to why she should close with you. Specifically you, specifically now! What is your experience though?
Be well happy to share/ swap stories on our best or fave openers though....
Sure but I've done more "situationals" than anything and I focus on framing her as a cute friend so I very rarely get told of a bf especially if i close with an email. But maybe someone else has?
Micro anticipation = slowing yourself down and building intrigue with your interaction(s) best used in crescendo to a k-close. (I would describe it like that anyway)
Hit me back man though this subject is ripely relevant to me right now!
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