Hey man, hows it going?
I feel your anguish, I had the exact same thing. I too have been genuinely diagnosed with gynecomastia, I've had a very rought time with alcohol dependancy and bad depression. Needless to say, I never had any luck, nor any time to even begin to try and get a girl... Any girl. AND IM ONLY 22.
Luckily, I found The Game at the right time. Since teaching myself to love myself (not in the douchebaggy kind of way, in the self-respecting kind of way) I've been able to not only improve my social life and my sex life, but I've also brought myself out of my shell.
Anybody can get stuck, looking for the keys that you've lost that'll help you unlock a locked door. However, you'll find very soon that you had the keys in your hand the entire time. You've just got to figure out how to use the keys you have.
So have you tried cold approaching any women at all within the last two weeks? Have you purposely asked a girl to reject you there and then? These are the smallest of stepping stones. Soon as you open up and make small talk to strangers then you'll find that you'll want to improve your life in all aspects, not just getting a girl. Human emotions are constantly driven by one overriding aspect- we constantly worry about how other people as a society see us. Why are you wearing that shirt? Those shoes? That hairstyle? It's to obtain social status and to look good for when other people see you. In a fashion style that makes sense. But your personality?
Stop worrying about how other people perceive you as a person, and start living your life for who you are and how you want to be. Enjoy yourself. Stop giving a fuck about first impressions, and just say 'Hi.'
