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| Author: | John340 [ Wed Aug 21, 2013 6:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | New to PUA - From online dating to public approaching |
Hey everyone, I'm new to the entire PUA thing. I've been getting most of my dates and hooking up with random girls online now for about 2 months. Been on 5 dates, slept with 2 girls, and hooked up with a third but nothing else happened. I'm doing ok as I have been out of the game now for a while but I'm feeling comfortable and confident talking to girls and working the seduction line. Just going on dates, I find, really helps to be able to develop some solid game experience - whether anything comes from the interaction it doesn't matter - the point is to learn from the interaction and to look at it as a learning opportunity. By adopting this approach I am able to work my game a lot better without fear of rejection. However, I lack the confidence to be able to approach women randomly out in a public location, and I think the reason for this is because I am just not used to it. If a chick rejects you out in public openly in front of you it can be hard to deal with. Being rejected by a girl online it doesn't matter. How can I overcome my public fear of rejection so that I can start approaching women in public places (train stations, coffee shops, supermarkets anywhere really) where I can experiment without the fear of being rejected and by seeing everything as a learning opportunity? Am I just overthinking it and will this become natural (the whole meeting woman in public thing) once I start to ease into like I have done with online dating. Can anyone offer any advice on being able to deal with fear of rejection of approaching girls in a public setting? Peace. John. |
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