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Author:  lucasenigmatic [ Thu Aug 15, 2013 9:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Hello, Lucas from Brazil

Hello everyone, my name is Lucas Pires, I'm Brazilian, I'm 19 years old and obviously I'm here to learn from you the art of seduction, and frankly I'm a very shy guy, I find attractive but as I said I am very shy to reach women, almost always where I go I see women staring at me but when I look I just look away and end up missing the opportunity, I always regret it later. Well, I have trouble talking to women who are even my friends or acquaintances. My ambitions in life is to become a professional poker player and traveling the world meeting new women and experiences but if I continue the way I am now I find it very difficult to happen. I hope this forum here acquire new ways of acting and thinking, I really want to study and become a seducer. I count on you and thank you.

Author:  Aptitude [ Thu Aug 15, 2013 9:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Hello, Lucas from Brazil

First is to accept you have approach anxiety. Not repress it.

There are two ways to handle approach anxiety:

1. Open to girls with a very indirect opener. I'm talking about functional openers. Examples: "What time is it?" "Do you have a light?" "Do you know where the closest bank is?"

Or

2. Be bold and let the lions eat you. That is using a very direct opener. "Hey, I think you look cute." That way you will learn that even in the worst case scenarios, girls aren't that bad. You're still alive.

I have learnt to handle approach anxiety the second way.

One quote that help me getting motivated is this:
"Do something today that your future self will thank you for."

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