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| Author: | Double O [ Mon Jul 08, 2013 7:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hey guys! rAFC and a tad bit natural' very new to the art! |
What's up guys? I'm actually very new to this whole PUA thing after my friend recommended me to read the game, although the bookstore still hasn't restocked it though. Anyways I read the MM and everything just makes a hell lot of sense! So anyways I'm 19.5, I'm actually one of the most social people I have ever met and definitely one of the friendliest, very good looking and put a high value on fashion and hygiene (work out a lot), confident, and intelligent (I'm not bragging I'm just being honest). I have a couple of chick friends that are into me but on the other hand I have TERRIBLE luck with women I pick up on cold approaches. Absolutely horrendous (people find it weird that I can seldom find a date). Also I have this very weird mechanism of not wanting to get into an intimate relationship with a chick friend because I'm afraid of fucking it up. So I'm screwed. I started this whole thing on wednesday and I'm extremely eager to learn especially now that I have had luck just a day after I learned about the game with a near fclose on an HB7 on Thursday (I didn't have my car and she wanted to go to find a dark corner outside but I didn't want to get down to that lol, in reality it was a 4close). Another thing is that I usually have AA but sometimes I get into streak and I can approach dozens of chicks a night (that tells you something about my success if I can condense that many approaches in a single night lol). Anyways I've always had typical AFC techniques which is why I'm all too well acquainted with the bitch shield. I also rarely ever get AI's even though I'm confident and good looking. Probably because I constantly lower my value... As you can probably see from the wordings I've learned all the terms and stuff and I'm really interested in this thing! In addition, I'm EXTREMELY busy and only have chances to meet new people like once a week (in my country you can choose to volunteer a year doing educational work before you mandatory 3 year army service in a specific neighborhood and I can't hit on girls here because they're always related to my kids. I've learned a few times when I approached chicks here lol. That means I get out of the neighborhood only once a week and a big portion of that is visiting my friends). Sorry for rumbling, anyone has any advice on what I should do to improve my game? Answers like "go to the field" are of course the answer but I can only have a couple of times a week I can go to a field so what should I focus on? Thanks, Double O |
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| Author: | DaftJackal [ Mon Jul 08, 2013 9:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hey guys! rAFC and a tad bit natural' very new to the ar |
Keep reading, but most importantly keep god damned approaching! If you can't go out at night, try to do day game 2-3x a week. It'll help with club/bar game a lot. You sound like you're on the right path, keep that up but apply the methods you've learned so far. Stop thinking in and using language that implies lack of control or permanence, like you having bad 'luck' with cold approaches, or that you're 'screwed'. You have the power to change your situation dude. This journey begins now, and with tenacity you WILL become the best version of yourself. Great job admitting you have an issue, and looking for a way to fix it. Most guys can't seem to do this. Just please...Don't. Give. UP! There will be many times you'll feel like doing so. I gave up last year, and had the worst year of my life. I just got back into this, and I haven't felt better in years. This wasn't after months, this was after a few weeks. Go get 'em bud. Courtesy of: The DaftJackal |
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