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| Author: | A-Core [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 2:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Seriously Frustrated Chump |
My name's A-Core. I live in Northern Nevada. 20 and brand new to this PUA environment. I had problems with girls until I was about 17, and I've had long term relationships ever since. But I am tired of long term relationships, and have no idea how to meet girls without that being the ultimate goal. I just spent a year living with someone who made me miserable and I'm done with it. I want to meet new girls and have fun while i'm in college. I've read The Game and am starting The Rules of the Game, but I'm not really sure where else to go from there. If you guys could help me out that would be awesome! I'm taking the summer off school and i'm ready to soak up as much knowledge as possible. -A |
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| Author: | MedicOnCall [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 1:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Seriously Frustrated Chump |
You start in front of a girl you find attractive. Reading is certainly helpful, but remember that in the Game Style/Neil Strauss continuously said he spent his spare time out in the field. For all the experiences he had with Mystery and the routines he named in detail, he also went on and on about just putting himself out there. So go outside and roll with it, "it" builds on itself. Find a guy friend who is better at it does help, but you might surprise yourself even if you go out alone. |
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| Author: | MedicOnCall [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 1:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Seriously Frustrated Chump |
From my own personal theories/experiences, I would say start out somewhere where the balance of power is in your favor. What I mean by that is find somewhere: 1) you are comfortable 2) you are in an environment where women expect to be social 3) preferably somewhere with a favorable gender ratio 4) A place where you stand out. How you interpret these rules is up to you. For example, if you like to cook, go taking a cooking class at a community center, especially one that geared toward 20-somethings. It'll be mostly girls, and there's plenty of socializing expected. If you are good at cooking, you can "teach" and start conversations that way. |
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