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| Author: | disaster [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 1:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Needing some closure. |
Hey guys, Im not sure why I havent joined this until now, but here I am. I have learned more on internet forums on some subjects than from most any other sources. Ive read a few threads before deciding to register and it seems at least some of you share my sentiments. I feel I should tell all of you that I am not a stranger to a lot of the concepts here or terminology. I have been trying (rather poorly unfortunately) to follow the concepts behind "game" and "social dynamics" for the majority of my life now. I really ramped up my research at age 23 and it has seemed to make my life progressively worse. I just turned 30 this April and Im still completely unsatisfied with my consistency in interacting with women. At this point, I am a psychological mess. Even as I type here Im reflecting on how I obsessed my way through today, and the day before, and the day before,............. This is nothing new. This has been going on since my teenage years. I have almost multiple personalities now since I have to tuck all this to the side with my daily grind and whatever else I have to deal with at this point in time. As a result, Ive made some very poor choices leading to legal issues (from partying too much trying to meet people) and a wonderful ulcer. I told you that sob story to tell you why I chose to join and why I chose this thread title. I have been trying to expand my horizons and develop/discover my tastes/abilities for years now all to no avail. I would like to think I am definitely about quality over quantity but my "quality" is never what I really want. Just one aspect or 2 generally (Neither of these are beauty, most of the time). On the same token, my quantity isnt at the point where I can say I have had enough. There are plenty of experiences I want to have which I know are possible but seem out of reach. There have been times in my life when I have been somewhat successful and I have gone through multiple-year dry spells. I have had some downright unique experiences and times where I felt I was just "the shit". However, these have been fleeting, at best. Thanks for reading, Im sure I dont have to tell most of you how humiliating this is to type. If any of you have any advice on where I should start, Id be glad to take it. As I said, however, I am currently a hot mess and sometimes trying to correct a behavior is like trying to play tug-of-war with a draft horse. I may need it to be drawn in crayon and my hand to be held. That all out of the way, Im off to read. |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Sun Jun 16, 2013 6:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Needing some closure. |
You might think is not what you need, but right now, you need to focus on YOU. Not women. You should take some time and read a few self help books. Tony Robbins was what I read and listened to when I came to the conclusion that I was my own worst enemy. People hate trying new things because they are set in their routines. The first step is the hardest. Realize that you need to fix you first. After you fix you, things will happen. Great things. |
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