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| Author: | Lankie [ Thu Jun 13, 2013 4:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | High Value lifestyle but my inner game needs work! |
Sup to everyone! Allow me to intro myself. As the subject suggests I live a High Value lifestyle (well what some girls may see as high value); -I'm 24yrs old 5'10, girls have told me I am cute and good looking. I work out and have a lean body. I am a very competent cook as I'm a chef by profession at a fine dining restaurant, I am a confident person on the dance floor as I was a bboy for 7 years, I skateboard, dabble in street art, played guitar for 8 years, funny and very witty. Most of my friends are either dancers, DJ's, Photographers, event organisers, producers, musicians, starving artists lol (all ive met through dancing). So I can assume that some girls will see me as HV. HOWEVER! My inner game sucks, I have low confidence although thats starting to increase as I learn more through these forums. I still have approach anxiety, and sometimes revert back to my AFC mentality from time to time although I am able to catch myself doing it and stop before I do any real damage. I have been working on my inner game with the last 4 months, since then I've asked out a HB9 (she flaked) N-closed another HB9 (she flaked but thats still a work in progress) and flirt alot more with the waitresses at work ( a few of them actually started sending me IOIs) So far im happy with my progress although I know I can always push myself harder. I will try and update you guys on my progress as well as ask for help and advice. Oh, and I'm from Melbourne, Australia. |
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| Author: | happy duck [ Thu Jun 13, 2013 4:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: High Value lifestyle but my inner game needs work! |
I've found it's good to push yourself but don't push too hard or you will seem fake and desperate. If you stick strong to your interests there is a good chance other interests will come to you so you can broaden your spectrum. Your inner game is fine you just need to balance it with your outer game. Paranoia leads to frustration and frustration leads to trouble and low self esteem. Women are the same around the world, if you find a common ground she'll be yours. |
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