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Hello, I live in Northern Italy, I'm 23 years old.
My friend suggested the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss to me after I ended a 4 year relationship with a girl which sucked most of the life and the will power out of me (the relationship, not the girl, she was sweet and loving).
I'm interested in pickup, I want to learn, but I'm starting from scratch.
I'm a musician, I have many interests: they include philosophy, psychology, science fiction, literature (yeah, pretty nerdy) but there aren't any people in my circle of friends that share these so they all tend to rot and lay forgotten on some book shelve or computer folder.
My goals are to overcome my self esteem/confidence issues (this is my first and biggest concern, more in life than with girls), learn how to socialize in general and of course how to seduce women (and people). I don't wan't anymore long monogamous relationships, I love sex and want to have as much of it as possible with the girls that I desire, not just the ones that "happen" to me.
About my background: I'm actually not a bad locking guy, I also have a cool band, I'm good at what I do and many people say I'm interesting. During high school girls approached me them selves, I guess that's also why I've never learned to actively pick up girls.
I've never understood most social conventions and rites, I find most of them unnecessary and hindering for our mental well-being!! But I want to learn, I'm sick of feeling out of place.
My first objective is to develop my inner game and build self confidence, I appreciate any suggestions and help!
Welcome to the forum bro My friend suggested the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss to me after I ended a 4 year relationship with a girl which sucked most of the life and the will power out of me (the relationship, not the girl, she was sweet and loving).
I'm interested in pickup, I want to learn, but I'm starting from scratch.
I'm a musician, I have many interests: they include philosophy, psychology, science fiction, literature (yeah, pretty nerdy) but there aren't any people in my circle of friends that share these so they all tend to rot and lay forgotten on some book shelve or computer folder.
My goals are to overcome my self esteem/confidence issues (this is my first and biggest concern, more in life than with girls), learn how to socialize in general and of course how to seduce women (and people). I don't wan't anymore long monogamous relationships, I love sex and want to have as much of it as possible with the girls that I desire, not just the ones that "happen" to me.
About my background: I'm actually not a bad locking guy, I also have a cool band, I'm good at what I do and many people say I'm interesting. During high school girls approached me them selves, I guess that's also why I've never learned to actively pick up girls.
I've never understood most social conventions and rites, I find most of them unnecessary and hindering for our mental well-being!! But I want to learn, I'm sick of feeling out of place.
My first objective is to develop my inner game and build self confidence, I appreciate any suggestions and help!
