Hi guys, I'm 22 and I have been a dormant reader of these forums for about 6 months now. Always reading and picking the odd thing up but never properly attempting any cold approaches, and never really approaching at all!
Last night for me that changed. Me and 2 of my friends went out and hit a few clubs. It was early on in the night and I had barely touched any alcohol, my friend challenged me to approach a pair of hb9s, and get one of their phone numbers without talking. I had been reading a thread earlier about how you should approach with the initial goal of rejection, (sorry I can't remember who's post it was) and for some reason that just gave me what I needed to do this.
I approached, presented my phone to one of the girls, and did the universally known call me hand signal... and for reasons unknown to me, she smiled and typed her number in. I started chatting to them and then a bunch of their girlfriends came over and started speaking to me. I introduced my friends after they asked who I was with and I began isolating this one hb9 (arguably a hb10 because she also had ginger hair).
I took her to the bar and chatted to her for a while, all the time building kino until she felt comfortable with my hand rested on her lower back. Unfortunately before I could make a move her friends stormed past and telling her to go with them. (Clearly my friends are less good wings than I would have liked)...
She told me to go with them but I told her I would meet her later on (didn't want to seem like I'm some needy guy that will follow her around all night) and took her phone number. She grabbed me and gave me a quick puckered kiss on the lips and quickly went to leave, I grabbed her hand, pulled her in and made out with her. She smiled and left. Feeling pretty good about how that just went down I turned to go find my friends, and there they were, smiling at me from the balcony, clearly impressed.
So I convinced my friends to go to the club she went to about 20 mins later. Its a pretty big club and I decided to give her a quick text rather than look around for her like some needy guy. We got talking to these chicks in the smoking area when one asked me for a cigarette. Cut to about 30 minutes later and I'm making out with this chick on the dance floor, one of my friends has 2 of her hb friends pretty much fighting over him, and my other friend wandered off to find his gf. That one ginger chick kept walking past when I'm all loved up with this chick, not sure if she actually seen us (I hadn't realised she had actually text me).
We went to another club and 'smoking area hb' pretty much bought my entry and all my drinks as I only had my card (the club is weird and doesn't have card machines). Anyways these girls went to go back to their hotel apartment (they were from a town just outside the city and decided to stay there for the night) and I couldn't close the deal
. I think the girl was too innocent, but at the same time I should have attempted some over the clothes stuff to get her keen.We had some other female attention through the night but that pretty much sums up the main 2 girls. Anyways I know consider myself to be a practicing newbie pua
to the point were I am going to make myself cold approach in bars and nightclubs. (Maybe eventually feel comfortable with a little day game). Well there it is for anyone who has a large attention span, my induction.