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| Author: | mdeschaine [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 3:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Introducing Myself From PA |
Hey everyone, I stumbled into the forum a few months ago...gave a bit of advice to a guy but never introduced myself! My Name is Mike, and how I got involved sarging is a long and involved story. The short version is, If I had never transferred colleges back in 2005, I would still be an AFC and never would have discovered myself. I basically had no money, so I borrowed a copy of "The Game" by Neil Strauss, which I assume we're all familiar with here...and then basically pulled tidbits of info off the internet for the next 2 years and put them into action. The two guys I met at school (I really felt like it was divinely orchestrated, because I met these two guys my FIRST day at an ice-breaker event, and they both wound up being in my dorm building), eventually introduced me to what they were studying (sarging), and I was that "Get outta town" kinda guy... And of course, I immediately said "Ok, gimme some pick up lines." So they taught me a few things, and I immediately tried them out (on facebook no less) and it worked like a charm! In that moment...a monster was born. These guys, come to find out, actually became friends with me just TO STUDY me! You would think I would be upset about that, but I was actually flattered. They said I had a lot of natural abilities that they were amazed at. But Pick-up has lead to entrepreneurship and then honestly, spiritual enlightenment for me. The down side is during my "transformation" I almost had a freakin' nervous breakdown. The truth is, I spent 2 years trying to "become" some other personality, or mesh a bunch of personalities together for the ultimate perfect guy. But then I came to the realization --- I ALREADY HAD A PERSONALITY! A PRETTY COOL ONE! That's how, in a sense, I found myself. Again, a bigger monster was born. Eventually, I had to stop reading. My brain became overloaded and I found myself thinking about my next move when I was talking to a girl, more than I was listening. It was think, think think think, it was driving me nuts. So I stepped out of the community and online forums, and started figuring out my own way. I did what worked for me. (My main tactic wound up being something I call - The Display.) I would go out and immediately talk to everyone I saw. No matter how stupid. And basically...Display to the entire room that I am here, and I'm the man. Made my job super easy! I've even brought girls back to my Parents' Trailer, and did what it is two adults do at 2:30am after the club. So am I a believer in this stuff?? Absolutely! I had a lot of success, and now got married and have two kids! Can I tell you? If i never learned this, I would be a horrible boyfriend/husband, a horrible father, etc. I now know how to maintain a relationship and make it AWESOME along the way. So...I now want to help teach other guys! I have a link to my website i've been working on, but I'm afraid to post it until I get permission. I like it here and I don't want to get banned. Hope to make some new friends here! (SOrry, I said I'd make it the short version...but I wanted to let you guys know where I come from). |
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