Hi guys!
I just recently knew about this PUA thing in a tv doc. And coz of my actual situation instead of thinking this is all bullshit I realized that this could be a great ideia!
Well, the story is common, «just divorced», all the girls around me are much younger or married, many years of desconstuctive confidance and suddenly the world apears as a great place to live with plenty of opportunities and interesting stuff to do. Perspective is a curious thing right?
One of those definitely is flirting and sex. Well, flirting I already did, not so much for my virtues but for luck. And its great feeling our confidance growing up, but... I wish to manage to get that more often and more deeply (=sex!).
Another thing that i realized is that all the interesting girls that i meet are engaged. F***! In one lunch I had, the girl just told me that in the middle of it... after dozens of chat lines and 1/2h of intimate talk. This is causing me some fear in girl approaching to be honest.
Despite of my actual lack of confidance, i think my main handicap is not understanding body language. Its still a brave new world to me. And when her eyes and touch reveals intimacy i just deny the offer and think i dont worth it.
Im 40, live in Lisboa (Portugal), just loose some weigh and have no luxuries to charm.
Well, just like everyguy else.
Thank you!