Wow thanks for the fast replies guys
im handling it ok cuz of mates support and im pretty confident i can get her back.My plan: she hasnt got alot of friends and she mentioned getting some lunch in a few weeks when uni holidays are on and the stress of that has gone, she will ask me to hang out, when she does ill say im busy that day and then plan lunch on my terms. I will take her out for lunch somewhere we have been before so its familiar and i know the food is good ill dress to impress (she still thinks im attractive) get some new cologne (one million for men she loves it and i havent had it yet) so it gives her a new me vibe, when lunch is done ill excuse myself and go pay without letting her know then she will argue about paying and stuff and i will say to her "I believe the word your looking for is thanks" then smile at her she will say thanks then ill point to my cheek and she will kiss it (inspired by mysteries kiss goodbye gambit) then ill tell her she can get the next one (plant the seed of her thinking of a future lunch date) I will also invite her out later that night to come bowling or something with some mutual friends (if she comes great i will have her meet at my house then ill take her with me) then when we are there i will hang out with my mates and have a good time and not dote on her but not ignore her either. If she doesn't ill have some friends tag on facebook about how much fun it is etc (note: she is an independent girl and doesn't have a lot of friends so if she isnt hanging out with me she will be hanging out with her sisters who both want us back together. she will notice the facebook stuff then ask me about it later... i think its a fairly solid plan but would definitely love some advice or changes that may work? or have worked in the past?
Thanks again guys