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| Author: | sarumanLOW [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 9:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | My First Experience; Testing the Waters; and Some Questions |
So I'm your AFC, slept with 7 girls in my life at the age of 22. I'm looking to raise this number, but I am absolutely horrible with women. No confidence, no dominance, no game. I've relied on looks, luck, and alcohol for most of my sexual encounters (these three conditions align with some regularity at a large public school). Now that I've graduated, something needs to change. I just began reading "The Game," and it has just blown me away. It all makes so much sense, and I am angry I did not discover this shit earlier. My thoughts regarding women and attraction were immediately revamped, and everything I'm reading about is now constantly on my mind. The other night I was at a house party, and I decided to test the waters a bit. Because my experience and knowledge is so limited, I only had a few very general ideas to apply, but I decided it would be fun and interesting to see where they got me. At this party there were about 20 males, 7 females. Naturally, this involved the females receiving large amounts of unwanted attention at all points of the night. Apparently I was surrounded by AFCs. As I was standing outside, I noticed one of the girls standing next to me talking to her group, with her back towards me. I seem to remember Mystery stating that this can be an indication that the girl is interested. So I decided to see what was up. She turned around and then I took my shot... She was drinking a 40 of some shitty malt liquor, so that seemed like an easy target to open with and throw in a neg about. I think it came out as more of a straight up insult though. I can't remember the exact words, but it was something like, "Oh is that Olde English you're drinking?" "Mhmm" Then I playfully said something about her having no class for drinking such shit... I tried to smile and maintain strong eye contact. She laughed a bit and tried to defend herself. She seemed interested in talking to me. I think my approach was refreshing to her. I proudly showed her my much classier vodka and told her this is what people with class drink. And with that I turned around and began offering swigs of it to the people standing outside, acting confident and social. "You look like you need some vodka..." Shit like that. I moved across the porch during the process, and sure enough, within about a minute this girl had followed me and positioned herself next to me again. I decided to let her initiate the next contact (right thing to do)? She seemed like she wanted me to pay attention to her but I just kept conversing with some dudes. Finally she started talking to someone else and loudly said, "and classy boy over here..." referring to me trying to get my attention. We started talking about some bullshit and in the end I got her number.... But I was really amazed how easy it was to go from some beta chump, trying to pursue women, chasing them, to getting them to pursue me. I was going about it completely wrong. I am very excited for the future.... So I am asking you guys here to refer me to some good starting points. Some good reads for newbies. Good techniques. Whatever. Where do I begin my journey!? |
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| Author: | MrBreeze [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 6:13 pm ] |
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I dont think 7 by 22 is AFC by any means... sounds like youre doing just fine. Keep learning and progressing and you'll do just fine. |
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| Author: | Reality Show [ Mon Sep 10, 2012 11:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Escalate |
Right on man. You are hitting the ground running. 7 / 22 is amazing. I started this stuff very late in life, and I am light years ahead of my single friends and they have more money, better looks, more respect etc. So it works, but I'm only 10% of the way there, but close to lift off. One of my favorites is Adam Lyons who is part of this forum apparently. Google him. Watch all his stuff. His books are cheap and easy to read. Listen to podcasts. There are so many different coaches styles and personalities to learn from. Looks, luck and alcohol have gotten you far, because it's obvious you have some experience under your belt. Now add some wisdom and bam. Hopefully you will have the fulfilling life you always wanted. I took up dancing and that's been my secret weapon. Everything else was just practice. I got an email from this forum I think a few weeks ago and it was an mp3 interview between Adam Lyons and Sinn. It was short, but one of the best I have EVER heard. See if you can find that. Good work with the party. I can give you a formula that I always fall back on and kind of boils game down for me no matter what. 1. Confidence (got to have it and develop it to get chicks, through experience and competence) 2. Abundance (build tons of women into your life and be in the flow of their vibe. Women feel it and like to be around that and compete for your attention compared to the other girls) 3. ESCALATE SEXUALLY (Whenever I get bored or don't know what to do with a girl I ESCALATE ESCALATE ESCALATE. It is always fun and you get ahead or weed out the maybe/no girls. You are looking for the yes girls.) None of the Confidence, Abundance or Escalation tips help at all unless you APPROACH. So get out there son. And give those girls a chance to meet the man of their dreams. If they say no? That just means NEXT. |
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| Author: | sarumanLOW [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 12:30 am ] |
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Thanks guys. I will surely read that recommended material, and I appreciate the words of advice and encouragement. I'll remember it. Good lookin out! |
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