Hi!

Some facts about me:
I'm a 21yrs old dude from Stockholm (Sweden).
I can't realy claim that im bad with chicks, but i do have problems when it comes to pick-up girls at clubs and bars.

Since i was 14yrs old i had 3 girlfriends. (1st for 1 1/2yrs, 2nd for 1 1/2yrs and 3rd for 3yrs). So i have only been single for a year when i was 17yrs.

And now i broke up with my ex 2 months ago when i realized that i wont be 21 forever.

To the point:
I have always admired guys who do not look so good but have a charismatic behavior.
I have always wanted a mentor or a wingman that could teach me the secrets. So now i actualy want to do something about it. So i guess this forum is a start?

I am reading The Game with Neil Strauss SPAM, and the book is awesome, but ofc i am i bit skeptical, but at the same time i think the book tells the truth, the important is my positive attitude to the facts.

My problems:
I have a high self-confidence, BUT i im very nervous when it comes to talk to random women that i want to sleep with. My biggest problem is that i don't know how to make her interested, and it always ends up in the friend zone/nice guy zone. And the most frustrating is that i actualy spending alot of time talking to them without any "next steps" (hope I expressed myself correctly, so you understand what i mean)


Well that's all from me. I hope this forum will help me somehow..

Edit:
If there is some society/clubs where men meets and share their experience in Stockholm/Sweden. That would be realy helpfull. (I actually want to see the theories used in real life.

Welcome to the forums! wish i could help but new to the whole PUA thing myself!

Thank you for the welcome . I realy hope this would change my life as it would for everybody else!

I started PUA after reading 'The Game' right around your age. I'm 22 now. Since reading it I slept with 5 women in 1 year, 4 in the last four months alone. The best advice I can give is to escalate, and include sexual themes/topics after meeting a girl. Failure to escalate is where the majority of your weakness lies ... from what I could gather. Now get of your but and go sarge!

I got my first real gf, my first lay, my first ONS, my first stripper, my first same day lay, and my first MILF after reading the book. You ask for techniques, which is what I first thought I needed after reading the book. Let me tell you that's only a small portion. My first two months of serious gaming this summer resulted in a headless chicken skipping work and running around a major city hitting on girls and getting curbed. I only got honey because I was persistent, moved past flakes and also did not chase too hard.

When I approach I find something about myself - almost narcissistic - and feed of it. For example - I'm tall. I tell myself that I'm tall and good looking and just approach girls and conversation flows naturally. There is no one solution or one line that works.

The best thing to do is to talk to a woman for a few minutes or a couple hours, and get a phone number. I'm at the point where I am working towards moving past phone numbers and texting to physical meetings and lays.

Keep improving.