My Story -
I learned about the Game 2 years ago when i stumbled upon DYD DVDs first i thought David was full of shit - he was a terrible speaker but some of his stuff clicked and i applied them to this girl i met the next day. Worked like a charm. So i see this girl for a few months and i made every mistake in the book. Learned Mystery Method - applied some things -- made my game worse so i stopped sarging !!. I went on to read more and more feeling i was incapable of doing anything until my head was full of routines. I wasted about a year - My friend also learned about the game - so we both begin transformation. I changed the way i spoke. I learned how to be charismatic - playful, funny. Learned about fashion and i look prob the best in any place i am. Just started peacocking and takes my appearance to the next level. (Dress like models after i picked up GQ Mag from store- read Brad P's fashion bible which didnt help that much. Also worked at The Gap for a few months and learned even more about clothes)
Even with all this, it wasnt working. Simply cuz i never moved i just thought everything was gonna happen by itself. "Pretty much i wanted to get high enuff status to get approached by women".
My life changed when me and my buddy and other close friend whos also learning PUA were sitting down - and we got into a little argument and he told me i couldn't do it (PUA), and i felt terrible inside - I realized he was right because all this time i went to sarge and did nothing - even though i wanted to do it - i was never honest with myself, i kept telling myself i will do it but never did. I was just scared to do anything at the moment and was putting things of for future.
Then I realized how right he was when i tried to latch onto him, cuz hes very driven and i somehow felt that if we sarged together I would get good. So I knew something was wrong with me.
That night after i got home from a long bus ride home, I realized how wrong I was and what was wrong with me. I was not being a MAN. I was being a pussy. So i turned off my phone, made a commitment to not talk to anyone i knowfor a month, cuz they would suk be back to my oldself, (BTW my college was starting in 2 days) So those 2 days, i reflected on my life.
I forced myself to be totallly honest with myself, and I realized i was scared of Rejection. I read the essay Self Reliance by Waldo Emerson (translated into modern english) go read it if your afriad of approach) made the changes.
With a new mindset. I go to college, in all my classes i show everyone i am confident - fun - and interesting.
Meet some new people, After 3 days of chicken shit - I approach HB8.5 who smiled at me in class. I avoid my friends and run after her - after a long chase - say hi - talk for a few mins she gave a few IOIS - see her an hour later I talk for a few mins - I nailed it she giggled after everything i said and doggy bowl look a few times and played with her hair. Loved it
It was amazing. Especially since i was talking about the stupidest things - no routines - like why my cellphone was an hour and 10 mins ahead etc etc...
I am good at keeping conversation going and making them laugh, i was tho terrified of approaching. So with my new mindset i m advancing fast, and enjoying every moment of it.
I have done approaches in the past some of them have been great some not very.
I currently reside in Toronto. If you also live in toronto i would love to meet - help and also get help from a fellow PUA.
Knowledge of expertise -- fashion - Body Language -- Humor -- Inner game.
I have avoided this enough, its time to emerge and never look back again
.If your wondering why i too so much time to write this, i read a few posts last night that helped me today so i wana contribute and say I appreciate their work and maybe my story will inspire some1 to take action.
If you wana my convo with that girl, i know you do -- u slick, its in the approach section.